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  colosurveyor

Fri, Oct 02 12:50 PM

The trigger has been pulled!

 

Today my wife pulled the trigger. In the back of my minds been there, it’s been haunting us for years. We never really discussed it, we just both know it was there. Not really becoming a bigger problem, just never getting smaller and absolutely never leaving. Today we asked for help. No one yelled at us, no one laughed and kicked us; we didn’t fall off the edge of the Earth, like we felt would happen. I really don’t know what we thought would happen. It was just a big relief to both of us to get it out there and acknowledge it, it felt great! It’s going to be hard the next few weeks, dealing and talking to strangers, it’s embarrassing! but in the end the future looks awesome!

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good for you!

Wishing you all sorts of success - hard work pays off....

Awesome! confronting whatever has been affecting you sounds like it will take a big weight off of your shoulders, and it will only get better from here.

 

Enjoy the journey!

 

-Andrew