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Birth Date: Tue, Oct 23 1979

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Lose fifty pounds. Get out of debt. Become more motivated in life. Take more risks. Quit drinking. Quit smoking. Get married. Have children. Go to Europe. Go to Asia. Go to Austalia. Go to California. Remodel my kitchen. Quit seeking others approval. Open my own bar/grill
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  cpichon79

Sun, Jun 01 08:40 PM

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 I am trying to make some positive changes in my life. I need to get myself out of this rut, of regret and self loathing. Ever since my fiancee left me, I have let my life spiral out of control.  I have been telling myself for the last year that everything will work itself out. It hasn't just worked itself out and never will unless I put in the work. I have to learn that this setback in life doesn't define me. I can either let this be the moment that I look back on and say that is why my life sucks. Or I can push myself, make things better, and look back and say this was the best thing to happen to me.  I guess the first step I need to take is to be comfortable with myself. I am the type of person that when something goes wrong, even when its not my fault, I find ways to make it my fault. I have always blamed myself for every negative event in my life. I have to learn to put the blame where it belongs.  Also when things are my fault, I can never forgive myself and spend all of my time dwelling on it.

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