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Sat, Jun 05 03:09 PM

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 I hadn't stopped tools on day 21. Day 22 was all about that bump. Well I needed that. I stopped tools almost 2 months ago because it was making me feel bad about myself. I don't think I'm a bad person but everyday I had to list all these "bad" things that I wanted to change. I found that I was looking for things that weren't really there. Silly. Well, yesterday I woke up with no t.v. (I am a news junkie - political), today I woke up and stretched a said some affirmations. Well that made me think of tools. So here I am. No I am not a bad person. Yes there are things that I would like to change. Am I doing these things by myself. NO. I have a support system, my husband, weight watchers, a trainer and exercising buddies. I also have Tools. I am a person who needs to be help accountable to others because I have a tough time being accountable to myself. So here goes day 22, looking forward to day 23.

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melody33 melody33:

Welcome back!!

I don't remember which day this was on, but one of the things I've got in my tools journal is "Don't judge yourself.  It's not you that's bad, it's your behavior.  I don't like that behavior and because I like me, I will not behave in that manner." 

 

I don't know if that will help, but I frequently found myself feeling bad about myself, too, so that statement really opened my eyes.  I hope it helps, and I'm glad you're back!!

SGALBR2 SGALBR2:

good for you!!!

Hey,

 

I had not logged in for a while and only have a few days to go.  So I login in to check out a couple of blogs and am caught a bit off guard that you are back in the game.  Push through it and get a few weeks deeper into this and I believe you will start to get something substantial out of this.

 

Welcome back...now I have to get my but in gear and finish the last 4 days of this thing

 

Later...Sena

empowering_myself empowering_myself:

no worries :-)

as soon as you got started, you found yourself moving forwards and that's all that counts !!!

 

loved your picture btw.