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Birth Date: Thu, May 15

Place of residence:
some little town ca, United States (map)

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Member Since: 11/03/09
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deviantd's Life List:
Finishing Tools - I know one day at at time, but this means a lot to me
Getting a car
Finding hobbies that make me happy
Getting my house organized
getting my house clean and keeping it that way
Spending more time working with my son, not just hanging out
Finding a workable schedule to fit everything in I want to acomplish
Losing 10 lbs
losing another 10 lbs (167 goal)
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2009-11-30 21:30:08

KMC

KMC

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How is it going? You finding useful stuff in the "program". I am a few days behind you but think it is going in the right direction. Any tips?

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2010-06-10 18:52:36

CoachSteele

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You are back! Day 24, keep going! Big Boost...Devlyn

2010-03-01 08:55:29

luvmgt

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hope you are doing great!

2010-01-21 15:18:58

luvmgt

luvmgt

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ADD boost for you! I know where you are coming from...i don't think ADD and depression and anxiety are excuses...they are things we have to live with...that effect us...go you!

2010-01-12 06:04:49

JadeDragon (canceled account)

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A gold star and Big Boost for you! You're doing a great job!

2010-01-01 08:48:56

earthfireg

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Happy New Year!

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Things are changing for me yet again. I've had a few different archetypes, but one that keeps coming up in my life is the Phoenix.

 

I keep raising up from the ashes. It may not be who I am, but it's what keeps happening. lol

 

I've just gotten back together with my son's father after a 9 month break. I think we have both learned a lot and things are going much better this time around.

 

My son is a toddler and he takes up most of my time. I love it. 

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Is something an excuse if its medical?

 

I have ADD, depression, anxiety attacks and a chemical imbalance.  I am trying to treat these things, but they are still persistent in my life.

 

I wish I had more help in dealing with these issues. 

 

So are these things excuses? If so, does anyone have any ideas on how to better deal with them? 

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Thank you for the input. I think my biggest obstacle at the moment is to not give in to my feelings of hopeless and being overwhelmed. Not knowing what to do, or how to do it.

 

Anyway thank you again for the support 

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I joined TOOLS because:
 I was doing hypnotherapy and group meetings. I hated the meetings, I wanted more direction, more help. As for the hypnothereapy I loved that, but had to stop going for reasons I'm sure I'll rant about somewhere else. Anyway I needed something else that was free, and would still help me move forward in and change my life. Now I'm here.
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 At this point I'm not sure. I used to want to be a psychologist, or work in the music business. I've also wanted to be a journalist and a novel writer. I've been trying to get my own online store off the ground for a few years now, but my idea keeps changing as I grow older and gain more information. So maybe I just need to think what would I be happiest doing? Yeah same kinda problem. I really would love to work in the music industry though.
My favorite wild animal is:
 I'm pretty sure my favorite animal is a black jaguar. Though there are many other animals I love.
Why (describe as much as possible):
 I've always loved them. They are powerful, mysterious, rare... I also like the way they kill their prey. Unlike their African and smaller cousins they use there very large incisors to pierce the scull of their prey and kill them instantly.
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 I don't have a favorite domestic animal at the moment. At least not one I would want as a pet. I guess in general I like cats. I don't have a specific breed. cats aren't really like dogs in that area
Why:
 They are generally independent, graceful and pretty.
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 Steak and Lobster
Why:
 Well its actually pretty silly since almost anyone can make that, but sometimes you just want it made really well because you don't get it often and it might as well be the best.
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 Jung, Einstein, Angelina Jole, Rob Thomas, and my best friend Jill who I never get to see
Why:
 I'd love to watch and listen to the first two debate and analyze the situation and people in it. I'd also just like to hear their ideas and insights. (FYI, Jung was almost Frued, but well, he's a little into himself) Angelina because I'd like to see if we'd get along or hate each other (because in some ways we are very much alike). Rob Thomas because I love his voice. I just want to hear him talk, ok and I love his music. He was also nice to look at and since it's my party we need at least one musician. Jill, because I haven't gotten to see her in over a year, she is the most like me of anyone I know and well, i don't think i'd enjoy the whole amusing scenario more with anyone else.
If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:
 For some reason Paris.
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 For me it always depends on my mood or what I'm craving. there are a few I love though: stuffed spinich w/ ricotta mixed veggies with chichen and tomato sause Bacon chicken ranch with tomatoes
You are at a bar. You order this drink:
 A screwdriver is always a good starter or finisher. ButI'm a bad one and usually mix it up. Beer, whiskey, something cute...
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 Depends on my mood. Something sweet like a mocha or caramel coffee. Maybe a chi tea. Maybe hot, maybe iced, maybe a frap....
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 for my family and my self to be happy, healthy, and to have enough money to live comfortable without worrying about bills and food.
You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):
 Is it cheating to say three compilation CD's. One for when I'm feeling mellow, one for when I'm feeling upbeat and another that is a mix of different genre's and tempo's, 3 doors down - greatest hits, evanescence - the 1st one, korn - follow the leader If that is cheating it would probably be Follow the Leader by Korn, the 1st album by 3 Doors Down, and Evancence's 1st album.
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 Round up all the tweekers and send them to an island they couldn't escape from. Think Lost with tweeks. LOL
A sunset I remember:
 I used to love the sunsets at my childhood home. There was a big mountain and the sunset would reflect against it. So It would become beautiful colors ending with purple.
Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:
 Laura Croft in the Tomb Raider movies? This one was really hard for me.
Why:
 There are a couple of contenders, but what it comes down to is that she is bad ass in so many ways, but still vulnerable, and very smart.