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Fri, Mar 06 08:53 AM

cheating lover.

 i feel like ive been with the love of my life for the past three years. but i left for my job and the past year has been a long distance relationship. We are 3 monthes away from her moving down here with me when i found out she cheated during one of our fights. Is there anyway i can trust her again? Should I? any advice is appreciated.

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We sometimes cheat out of fear that we lost someone to fill the temporary void inside, but realize it was wrong. Like the guy who's afraid of marrage will take a last date to see if it's real.

 

When we fight we get frustrated at the other person why do we fight, I just want love... It also depends why we were fighting and what it was all about... We are all different and need to fight sometimes about learning to meet half way and agreement to get along better.

 

Cheating is never out of spite to hurt the other person.

 

It is that selfish feeling that we own the other person, and they have no respect for our feelings that hurts us the most. They call it jealousy... If she can do it I can too...

This ends the love for each other!!!

 

 

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I agree with Otter whole heartly... it's all about what you can live with...

 

hopefully she realizes her mistake and learns from it... people can change if they want to

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People cheat many different ways. I think the question should be can you love her past this without resentment while being good to yourself. This is a question only you know the answer to.

 

Trust is earned, not given.