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Birth Date: Wed, Apr 26 1989
Place of residence:
Mesa AZ, United States (map)
I am: Single & Not Dating
Schools: Carl Sandburg High School; Northern Illinois University; Glendale Community College; The Art Institute of Phoenix
Jobs: White Castle; Jamba Juice; PA&T Insurance; Sonic; Delivering Flyers For ADT/RSVP Security
Certificates:
Tools Program Stats:
Member Since: 09/07/08
Last Login: 01/29/10
Viewed: 15383
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 42
Member Since: 09/07/08
Last Login: 01/29/10
Viewed: 15383
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 42
Personal Interests:
Music:
*, Alternative, *, Acoustic alternative, *, Rock, *, Pop, *, O.A.R., *, The Fray, *, Dave Matthews, *, Maroon5, *, Oasis, *, Nine Inch Nails, *, Linkin Park, *, John Mayer, *, Jack Johnson, *, Matisyahu, *, Audioslave, *, Soundgarden, *, Apocalyptica, *, Jason Mraz, *, Gavin DeGraw, *, Death Cab, *, Weezer, *, Third Eye Blind, *, Fall Out Boy, *, Blink-182, *, Bob Marley, *, Disturbed, *, Coldplay, *, Incubus, *, Outkast, *, Dashboard Confessional, *, The Cure, *, Atreyu, *, Staind, *, Killers, *, Get Up Kids, *, Saves The Day, *, Seether, *, Eminem, *, Sick Puppies, *, Britney Spears, *, Norah Jones, *, Moldy Peaches, *, Colbie Calliat, *, Sara Bareilles, *, Sister Hazel, Alanis Morisette, *, Alice In Chains, *, Rolling Stones, *, Gustar, *, Avenged Sevenfold, *, Gavin Rossdale, *
Books:
Favorite Places:
I Want To See:
*, The world, *, How movies are made, *, What it's like in the peace core, *, If I can make it on my own, *
Hobbies:
*, Exercising, *, Accomplishing big projects/tasks, *, House renovation, *, Friends, *, T.V., *, New experiences, *, Laughing, *
Activities:
Sports:
Movies:
*, Harry Potter, *, Donnie Darko, *, Just Married, *, Wall-E, *, Monster's Inc., *, 101 Dalmations, *, Disney Flicks, *
TV:
*, Lost, *, Friends, *, Seinfeld, *, Spongebob, *, Family Guy, *, The Office, *, Conan O'Brien, *, Grey's Anatomy, *, Freaks & Geeks, *
Heroes:
*, Nelson Mandela, *, Oprah, *, My Aunt, *, J.K. Rowling, *, My dog Gypsy, *, My private percussion teacher from high school Ben, *, My best friend Krissy, *
I Want To Meet:
dobbywarnshryptr's Life List:
| Join the peace corp. |
| Live in a completely enviornmentally friendly home. |
| Stick to a steady exercise regime. To always be continually active. |
| Use my time wisely. Don't sit around when I know there are things to do. |
| When there is an opportunity to accel, don't say I'll wait til next time. |
| Don't think so much, just do. |
| Bring drumming back into my life as a hobby, not a chore, for myself, not for others. |
| Get a job. |
| Once I get a job, save as much money as I can for a year & find a place in L.A. No unneccessary spending!!! Ask myself why/if I need this. |
| Don't complain. Know that I can't control other's actions but I can take control of mine, have the best intentions & be confident in my decisions. Take responsibility for myself, not others. Stop letting people rely on me. It's just a distraction/procratination from my own responsibilites. It's not being greedy, it's having boundaries. Learn how to rely on myself. |
| Study motorcycle handbook & get my permit. |
| Use the computer only as neccessary. Don't waste unproductive hours on it accomplishing nothing. |
| Don't take things to heart. Realize that other people's opinions are really about themselves, not you. Grow a thick skin. What is the purpose of shrinking just because I want everyone to like me. I will never be liked by everyone. Get rid of the people I have to try to be liked by & stick with the people I'm naturally liked by. What sense does it make to keep someone in my life that likes me because I'm altering who I am. The sooner I can train my instincts to realize this, the better off I'll be. It's nothing personal, it's just the way people click. |
| Master time-management. I know I can do it. |
| When a situation calls for a few extra steps than anticipated, don't try to make it work without the needed steps. THAT ONLY TAKES LONGER WHEN I REALIZE IT WON'T WORK & I HAVE TO TAKE THE EXTRA STEPS ANYWAYS!!! |
| Go to school & get a degree. |
| Work in movie production. |
| Learn how to remain internally peaceful in the most stressful situatioins. |
comments
FEELINGS...
YOU are not a failure, failure really is an attitude of itself, you may have failed but that does not make you a failure. Great work on overcoming your urges, I know how that goes and how hard it can be to call or contact.
Sending JOY honest joy to you!!! Seriously keep working on YOU and working on Tools.
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Having a support group
will help you along your goals. Even Al-Anon has sponsors which help newbies get on track & find constructive outlets to deal with their urges.
Having someone who has already been there will be helpful to know if you are setting unrealistic goals or face disappointments (as we all do). Bottomline, you do not have to do all by yourself. Feel free to reach out and contact people you feel a kinship with.
You can do this!