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Birth Date: Wed, Apr 26 1989
Place of residence:
Mesa AZ, United States (map)
I am: Single & Not Dating
Schools: Carl Sandburg High School; Northern Illinois University; Glendale Community College; The Art Institute of Phoenix
Jobs: White Castle; Jamba Juice; PA&T Insurance; Sonic; Delivering Flyers For ADT/RSVP Security
Member Since: 09/07/08
Last Login: 01/29/10
Viewed: 15401
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 42
| Join the peace corp. |
| Live in a completely enviornmentally friendly home. |
| Stick to a steady exercise regime. To always be continually active. |
| Use my time wisely. Don't sit around when I know there are things to do. |
| When there is an opportunity to accel, don't say I'll wait til next time. |
| Don't think so much, just do. |
| Bring drumming back into my life as a hobby, not a chore, for myself, not for others. |
| Get a job. |
| Once I get a job, save as much money as I can for a year & find a place in L.A. No unneccessary spending!!! Ask myself why/if I need this. |
| Don't complain. Know that I can't control other's actions but I can take control of mine, have the best intentions & be confident in my decisions. Take responsibility for myself, not others. Stop letting people rely on me. It's just a distraction/procratination from my own responsibilites. It's not being greedy, it's having boundaries. Learn how to rely on myself. |
| Study motorcycle handbook & get my permit. |
| Use the computer only as neccessary. Don't waste unproductive hours on it accomplishing nothing. |
| Don't take things to heart. Realize that other people's opinions are really about themselves, not you. Grow a thick skin. What is the purpose of shrinking just because I want everyone to like me. I will never be liked by everyone. Get rid of the people I have to try to be liked by & stick with the people I'm naturally liked by. What sense does it make to keep someone in my life that likes me because I'm altering who I am. The sooner I can train my instincts to realize this, the better off I'll be. It's nothing personal, it's just the way people click. |
| Master time-management. I know I can do it. |
| When a situation calls for a few extra steps than anticipated, don't try to make it work without the needed steps. THAT ONLY TAKES LONGER WHEN I REALIZE IT WON'T WORK & I HAVE TO TAKE THE EXTRA STEPS ANYWAYS!!! |
| Go to school & get a degree. |
| Work in movie production. |
| Learn how to remain internally peaceful in the most stressful situatioins. |













comments
Interesting with PLENTY to offer
It really can be hard to wonder and worry about appearance and interestingness (not a word but you follow me). The opportunity is for you to head off or counteract this thinking, SAY ALOUD " I am interesting, engaging and beautiful !"I recommend to be interested of course as well.
" I love and accept myself as I AM and am gettin better everyday!", come on say it with some force, some conviction. These affirmations will translate into results and are true!
Keep putting in the good and positive and you will have good and positive results... it will shine through! You almost played soccer.. and that is OK Personally I would much rather play with someone that is fun and enthusiastic than a totally competitive WIN freak LOL with the exception being a team or league where winning counts for more (still would rather do my best and have fun)
More and more confidence will be yours and you will get out there more! Have an amazing interview, interview the interviewer possibly and by that ask questions about the job-opportunity to advance, training, car allowance JK on that last one and just a suggestion.
Still, myself working on the old self-image and honestly think I put myself in a spot as I was so amazed at he intelligence, knowledge base and diversity it overwhelmed me and I thought much as you have stated -uninteresting- and basically not good enough.
YOU are GOOD enough and have your own knowledge and experience.
Hope some of what I said makes a little sense
namaste