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Birth Date: Wed, Apr 26 1989

Place of residence:
Mesa AZ, United States (map)

I am: Single & Not Dating

Schools: Carl Sandburg High School; Northern Illinois University; Glendale Community College; The Art Institute of Phoenix

Jobs: White Castle; Jamba Juice; PA&T Insurance; Sonic; Delivering Flyers For ADT/RSVP Security


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Member Since: 09/07/08
Last Login: 01/29/10
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Program Progress: Day 42
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dobbywarnshryptr's Life List:
Join the peace corp.
Live in a completely enviornmentally friendly home.
Stick to a steady exercise regime. To always be continually active.
Use my time wisely. Don't sit around when I know there are things to do.
When there is an opportunity to accel, don't say I'll wait til next time.
Don't think so much, just do.
Bring drumming back into my life as a hobby, not a chore, for myself, not for others.
Get a job.
Once I get a job, save as much money as I can for a year & find a place in L.A. No unneccessary spending!!! Ask myself why/if I need this.
Don't complain. Know that I can't control other's actions but I can take control of mine, have the best intentions & be confident in my decisions. Take responsibility for myself, not others. Stop letting people rely on me. It's just a distraction/procratination from my own responsibilites. It's not being greedy, it's having boundaries. Learn how to rely on myself.
Study motorcycle handbook & get my permit.
Use the computer only as neccessary. Don't waste unproductive hours on it accomplishing nothing.
Don't take things to heart. Realize that other people's opinions are really about themselves, not you. Grow a thick skin. What is the purpose of shrinking just because I want everyone to like me. I will never be liked by everyone. Get rid of the people I have to try to be liked by & stick with the people I'm naturally liked by. What sense does it make to keep someone in my life that likes me because I'm altering who I am. The sooner I can train my instincts to realize this, the better off I'll be. It's nothing personal, it's just the way people click.
Master time-management. I know I can do it.
When a situation calls for a few extra steps than anticipated, don't try to make it work without the needed steps. THAT ONLY TAKES LONGER WHEN I REALIZE IT WON'T WORK & I HAVE TO TAKE THE EXTRA STEPS ANYWAYS!!!
Go to school & get a degree.
Work in movie production.
Learn how to remain internally peaceful in the most stressful situatioins.

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  dobbywarnshryptr

Tue, Nov 03 12:06 PM

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I just had a really scary moment where I felt like I was moving backwards.  But I'm overcoming that feeling and moving forward.  I haven't been so consistent with this program and I'm trying to hold myself accountable.  It's hard when you can't see the outcome.  It's hard to trust.  But maybe one day it will all come together.  As long as I keep doing the work and trying, it should all come together.  I hope.

 

There's a thrift store right next to my apartment.  I need some new clothes, and seeing as their clothes are probably lest costly than it is to go out and buy food to binge on, I've decided that anytime I feel like slipping, I'm going to go there and get one new thing for myself to remind myself that I'm going in a good direction.

 

I'm not going to move ahead on the Tools day today because if I'm not practicing what I'm learning I'll just be going through the motions & that's not the point.  It's not a race, but it does need to be a priority. 

 

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HOPE...it is worth it (YOU TOO!)

You have a nice plan there, and a great outlook! YES, you are moving in a good direction!

YOUR outcome well that may change as you go through tools... and that is OK.

 

No easy task to take control over your life esp. when most people seem to get by merrily on auto-pilot tra-la-la-la-la-la. As always I hear echoes of my own tools experience through your blog Embarassed, the list gets, well, really makes you think and when your actions are not mostly synced with it... then we want to feel guilty.

 

Smile girl, YOU are moving forwards, give yourself BIG credit! You are still with it, and WE are still with YOU!

 

 

Karmic Collaborator...and friend ...

 

                      ~namaste~

Great Idea Great Idea

Sending you a hug Sending you a hug

Good Effort

I love thrift stores! Sounds like a practical, fun plan to keep you on track. We all take some steps backward, but it's in realizing  you went backwards that matters. Because you are aware, you are making very good effort. Realizing is an important outcome!  Being consistent is not easy. (I should know!) But I now find lots of Tools' advice popping into my head at moments of impatience or procrastination. I think that means I am making progress because I am aware of that inner voice telling me  to take action. if I don't heed it, then that was definitely my choice. If I practice paying attention to it more, I notice I start to follow through. You are on Day 40. Good for You! I hope you find something you really like at the thrift store!