Hi, guest!
Join Now
Login
Password

forgotten your password?

Join Now downbynature's Blog
 
downbynature
# # # #

Birth Date: Sat, Feb 19 1977

Place of residence:
Poughkeepsie New York, United States (map)

I am: Married

Schools:

Jobs: Microelectronics


Certificates:
  
Tools Program Stats:
Member Since: 11/11/08
Last Login: 09/28/09
Viewed: 4962
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 92
downbynature's Challenges:

downbynature's Participating:
Personal Interests:
Music:
Books:
Favorite Places:
I Want To See:
Hobbies:
Activities:
Sports:
Movies:
TV:
Heroes:
I Want To Meet:
Tools Goal List:

Areas In My Life I Want To Work On

I Want To Quit Or Control

Skills I Am Interested In

I Suffer From

downbynature's Life List:

Info

 
 
Category:
more »
View By: 
 
Latest Posts

 

 

4
cheers
cheer it
downbynature

  downbynature

Sun, Jan 11 10:21 PM

Trust

 Things have been getting better in the past few weeks with regard to my relationship. My wife and I have both been making an effort to relax and have more fun with each other and it has been feeling great!  It's a pleasure to actually see her smile and hear her laugh more again. Someti»

 
7
cheers
cheer it
downbynature

  downbynature

Mon, Dec 29 05:04 PM

Hard times

 lately, my wife and I have beet going at it again over the most rediculus things. I have been better at keeping cool compared to what I used to do but I have been forgetting to think more before I speak/act. I know I'm not wrong with the points I bring up but when she becomes irrational, anythin»

# Comment (4) # View (241) # Show support

# Tags: argue

 
6
cheers
cheer it
downbynature

  downbynature

Sat, Dec 13 06:22 PM

Struggling

 Just a little lately. I've woken up a few times recently and realized later that I wasn't preforming my Tools rituals. I need to stay focused and on track! I know I can do it! »

# Comment (4) # View (158) # Show support

# Tags:

 
5
cheers
cheer it
downbynature

  downbynature

Sat, Dec 06 06:40 PM

This weeks Progress!

 Thanks to tools, I have seen nothing but improvements in my relationship with my wife and I couldn't be happier! We are enjoying each other's company again, we spent time together at night after the kids go to sleep instead of going off into separate rooms or me going out just to get away fr»

 
5
cheers
cheer it
downbynature

  downbynature

Sat, Nov 22 11:06 PM

A Sucessful week 2

 Keeping my fingers crossed here but things went pretty well this past week. I managed to check myself before anything came out of my mouth that may have started an argument with my wife and it seems like she's trying to take a more lighthearted approach to things so that helps.  As som»

# Comment (0) # View (135) # Show support

# Tags:

 
5
cheers
cheer it
downbynature

  downbynature

Mon, Nov 17 12:39 AM

Week 1.

 For the most part, things went well. At least better than they have been going.  Up until this past week, my wife and I have been at each others throats constantly. getting into fights about the smallest things and then it turns into a huge blow out where she'll tell me she wants to le»