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Birth Date: Thu, Feb 26 1970

Place of residence:
Sheboygan Wisconsin, United States (map)

I am: Married

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Jobs: Elementary School Teacher

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Member Since: 05/19/10
Last Login: 04/30/12
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To exercise daily
To visit Ireland
To re-learn to play the guitar well
To either learn to enjoy my work, or find a different career
To support my wife more
To eat healthier
To call my grandmother and visit more
To call my mother more often
To get together with my brother more
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2011-09-28 14:26:09

Scarlett

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I got your message. I am doing ok. I guess I'm doing what your doing. Sometimes on and sometimes off. I do feel better when I do my tools but lately it's been on the back burner for now. I'll get back on when I can really focus on tools. Right now it's all about getting a job and the kids and school for the kids. :)

2011-07-12 23:59:56

muffy825

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Hey there, Eagle! Thinking of you, again. :) Hope you are well and not getting too worn out with all you have going on! Miss you!

2011-03-24 15:41:19

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How goes the battle?

2011-02-20 18:11:56

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Ahhh that was a good question you asked me... I hoped I answered it well... Have a great day friend. Hit me up if you need any help with anything else... :)

2011-02-09 04:07:06

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Thanks so much for your support though out the program. I have made it to day 92 and my life is drastically different from day 1. At day 1 I was trying to pick up the pieces of a relationship I didnt understand and at day 92 (and about 9 months later) im on the verge of a relationship with someone that I feel at complete peace in her presence. Thanks again!

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2012-03-05 10:51:08

Puzzler

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Hi Eagle, Hope you had a great Christmas and New Year. I still check in from time to time. How are things going?

2011-11-01 21:17:21

tenaciousj

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7-0 BABY!! So sad about the Brewers. Perhaps next year. I actually lived in Milwaukee when the Cards took it from the Brewers in 1982. So sad, but fun!! I hope all is well with you. GO PACK GO!!

2011-09-28 14:24:09

Scarlett

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Wednesday Boost good friend...

2011-08-11 03:42:34

Scarlett

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Thank you for adding me again Eagle... Late Wednesday Boost to you...

2011-07-19 19:41:56

cheetah7712

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Hey Eagle! My 4th of July was the best I ever had!!! Hope you had a blast too! July has been a very busy month so far, full of fun and to top it off I'm moving on the 30th. Excited about it though. Hope you are doing awesome!

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I had the "perfect" childhood... I can't remember any serious drama in my life. Great parents, one brother, nice home, dog, camping, friends... no complaints. So why am I here? My problems have always been with myself. Part of me feels like I never CHOSE the life I have now. Of course, I did, but all through my life, I have been trying to please others. Mainly, my parents. I've always wanted to be what is viewed as a well-rounded person. I went to school. Never did drugs or alcohol. Participated in sports and scouts. I became an Eagle Scout. I went to college. I graduated with honors and became an elementary school teacher. I dated just a couple of girls exclusively over all that time. Got a good job. Got engaged. Got married. Bought a house. Had three beautiful children. Still have that same job. Became a Cub and Boy Scout Leader. And that's where I am. See how sequential that is? There's nothing wrong with that. People see that and think that I have it all together... but I don't. I feel that most of my life kind of "fell into place", based on what my parents and others wanted for me. I have never lived on my own. I've went from one responsibility to another without ever considering what I WANT my life to be like. Now that I hit 40 this year, I've been wondering "Is this all there is?". I'm still young (relatively! :)), but it seems there is nothing new on the horizon for me. It's always job responsibilities... I'm starting to wonder if I need a career change, but wouldn't know where to start, and kid-responsibilities which often blend into my job description. How could such a "perfect" life seem so UN-perfect? TOOLS has really begun to help me, but I still have many questions to answer about my own life. I'm looking forward to completing the journey.

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I joined TOOLS because:
 It's time for a change (or many changes) in my life. I'd like a support network where I could meet people with the same challenges and discuss how to work through them. This seems to be exactly what I need!
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 I honestly don't know. After 16 years, I feel I'm starting to get "kidded" out. Something a little more solitary and quiet. Suggestions??
My favorite wild animal is:
 The whitetail deer
Why (describe as much as possible):
 They are beautiful to watch, especially in new snow cover. They are just very beautiful and graceful creatures.
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 Mine! I have always loved miniature poodles and we just got a Bischon-Poo this year. A little yappy, but they get very attached to you and love to play and go for walks. They are also the ideal size of dog when you have younger kids.
Why:
 See above.
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 Anything mexican or italian.
Why:
 I love spicy foods... the hotter the better!
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 Jesus, John Lennon, Paul McCartney,Babe Ruth, Joe Hauser, Vince Lombardi
Why:
 I love the Beatles, so I could get insight into their music that I don't already have and find out how they went about writing songs. I knew Joe Hauser before he died. He played baseball with Babe Ruth back in the 1920's. I'd love to see him again and hear those two telling baseball stories. I'd love to hear them discuss winning and success with Vince Lombardi, as I'm also a huge Green Bay Packers fan. Last (but not least), I could discuss my life and life goals with Jesus himself. Who else to get advice from?
If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:
 Ireland
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 Super supreme, deep-dish, with extra sauce! (Now I'm hungry!)
You are at a bar. You order this drink:
 Usually a new kind of beer I haven't tried before.
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 Black house coffee
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 Financial security for the rest of my life, excellent physical health for the rest of my life, and excellent mental health for the rest of my life.
You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):
 The Beatles 1, Mark Schults: A Night of Stories and Songs, KISS: Double Platinum... Pretty Eclectic, Iknow!
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 To help with a neighborhood watch
A sunset I remember:
 I do remember just sitting out on our porch one night, probably when I first started questioning my life. It was a beautiful night and I can't say I really remember the sunset, but I can distinctly remember thinking of it being time to change myself. It's been a long time since then. And it's definitely time now.
Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:
 Indiana Jones
Why:
 He's smart, strong, vibrant, good looking, and always gets the girl!