I'm a lover, not a fighter.  I love...

God, good, words, idealism, peace in all of its manifestations, global connections, travel, wisdom, knowledge, teachers, students, health, conscious capitalism, electric cars, pulsating rhythms that move the soul then the body, educational systems that serve the highest interests of the students, financial systems that empower, philanthropy, international assistance, governments that serve its people, sneakers, incorruptible politicians, democracy with a political system that supports true democracy, eggs on toasted Ezekiel bread until I'm vegan again, sunsets, water, stove-topped popcorn, great movies, the Internet, the $100 laptop program, photos in National Geographic, cashews (what is it about cashews?), those that give whether or not they understand that giving and receiving are the same thing, business of art that doesn't compromise the art, Mom and Pop shops, visionaries, inspiring artists, cosmologies that teach that there's enough for everyone, people that go to school to learn more about what they're interested in, student discounts, meaningful names, astrology, treehuggers, clean air, free clean water, organic food, the return of the small farm, the deindustrialization of food, green consciousness, things that are meant to positively impact people's lives and do, people that mean to positively impact people's lives and do, smiling children, responsible parents, good pet owners that understand that animals are not simply for their entertainment, lively, loving culture, falafels on amazing pita bread, talented DJs with eclectic taste, people that put a positive spin on everything, hip hop, life coaches, gracious artists, memorable live shows, hugs and kisses, beds that lull you to sleep instantly, tenacity...

Not to negate the first statement, but I still thoroughly enjoy boxing, wrestling, and martial arts and I don't think it makes me contrary.