I am a wife and a writer. Those are my priorities although I am more than that. Presently, I am experiencing the beginning stages of Codepenency Recovery. This means I cannot see where codependency ends and where I begin. I'm here to find a little support.

I was married to my high school sweetheart for many years. He was an addict of porn. I'm a few years into my second marriage and my "self-preservation" techniques have progressed to a point of "self-disctruction". My husband is a patient and loving man who helped me see and admit that I need help. 

I see finding the real me under the rubble of codependency. I see freedom from self-doubt, guilt, submissiveness. I see real happiness.