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Birth Date: Sun, Oct 10 1976

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I am: Single & Not Dating

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Trying very hard to get what I want out of life. I am thankful for what I have.

 

Quote: To find the hidden justice that regulates your life you must first cease to whine and reveal and cease to accuse others. You will only then build your self up with strong and noble ways and find the hidden possibilities within you.

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I'm 33 years old and I've never had a relationship with a women before.

I'm a good looking guy, I live alone, I have a decent job, I drive a nice car, I live in a nice appartment, I'm clean and I smell good. I have a nice personality and I have a good sense of humor.

I could be honest with all of you and tell you that I don't get out much and that may be the main problem. WHERE AM I SUPOSE TO GO? I don't have many friends, I spend a lot of time on my own. The city I live in only has a population of 250000. A lot of them are addicted to drugs, well 75% of them and the drug of choice is crack and cocain. That means there are only 25% that are really with it. Most of "them" are taken.

This is something that has been on my mind for quite some time now I've even gotten therapy and it didn't do any thing.

At times It helps to tell my self that this life is not real, How could this be happening.

I tried plentyoffish and all those other internet dating sites and even paid for some of them and nothing. Could someon please help?

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deviantd deviantd at 2009-11-09

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I sent you a hug, because it sounds like you need one. Now for the comment, which isn't going to be quite as pleasant.

 

Its a good thing you are here and I wish you the best, work these "steps" because I've got the idea you desperately need to.

 

Your attitude is negative. I have lived in a town with 33,000 people, and 150,000 people. If you added the connected towns you get maybe 500,000 people. I've always been able to find a date. Yes I'm a girl and it's different, but sometimes its just attitude and confidence. Work on yours, then leave the house.

 

Is there anything you like to do? Is there any way to make those things social? Have you looked for any groups in your area? Try meetup.com. You may be surprised what you can find. 

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I joined TOOLS because:
 I want my life to be the way I want it to be.
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 To be a nude art photographer and take pictures of beautiful women in exotic locations.
My favorite wild animal is:
 A fox
Why (describe as much as possible):
 Because I could identify with it. The most cunning animal in the wilderness, you heard the term crazy like a fox. It is a small animal and so am I, well not that small I'm only 5'6
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 Syberian Huskey
Why:
 I like the eyes and the fur
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 I really don't know, could I look at the menu
Why:
 I don't know.
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 I could just thing of having 5 very sexy and attractive women who like to laugh and who like to have a good time.
Why:
 Because it would be nice to have 5 sexy women to laugh at my way of looking at life.
If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:
 Some of the nicest tropical beaches in the world
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 Peperoni, mushrooms, hot pepers, roasted ham pineaple, lots of cheese.
You are at a bar. You order this drink:
 Mie Tie
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 B-52 coffee
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 To be a really sexy looking guy, To live on a tropical beach, Have sexy beautiful women running around naked.
You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):
 Van Halen, Leanoar Cohan, A mixed CD that I have.
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 To change their way of looking at the world.
A sunset I remember:
 NO, I don't remember.
Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:
 Clint Eastwood Good bad and the ugly
Why:
 I like his independant style in this movie