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Tue, Sep 09 09:13 AM

Stood Up for Myself!!!

 

I used to be the queen of "yes."  "No", was not in my vocabulary.  I would feel guilty if I said, "no."  Well, my ex asked me to do something and when I told him that I was busy, he yelled at me! Ha! Yelled at me as if he was speaking to a child.  I agreed to do the task and resented him and myself for agreeing.  

 

After some thought, I decided that accommodating him or anybody else at my expense was no longer acceptable.  I told him that I could not do the task and that my time was valuable.  Of course he's mad, but I feel good.  I feel like I've finally started standing up for myself.  That's a good feeling.  

 

Today is a GREAT day!

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Angelwings777mp Angelwings777mp: 2008-09-09 11:09:08

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Nikki - GOOD for you!  That is what this program can do for you and others, gives us a sense of SELF and Self Love/Worth!

 

You are doing the best thing for you and that is a great thing.

You did it! You did it!, Micci

biglife biglife: 2008-09-12 12:12:16

says: Wat to go!