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  hal26

Thu, Feb 19 07:56 AM

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Day two, and I just have to get this out there

I really hate alcohol. Yes, a couple drinks is cool... but when is enough, enough? I have had countless fights with my boyfriend about actions, bad decisions that happen when he gets drunk. That's all our fights are ever about.

I have left him a couple times but got back together and then it just happens over and over. He isn't responsible and ends up getting to drunk and staying out too late!

Am I being taken advantage of?

About three weeks ago I said, No more! No more going out, Im done! Is it right for me to let him have a couple of drinks....

I just get worried that a couple will lead to a couple more. Do I just get him to quit drinking completely?

I can't let it happen again, I love him too much and alchohol is getting inbetween our relationship.

He comes home from working out of town next week.... we will see how it goes.

*sigh* this stresses me out more than anything.

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lulu_chick lulu_chick:

you deserve better!

Yes!  You are definetly being taken advantage of!  He gets to have his cake and eat it too.  He drinks..u dont like it, but u leave him, and then come back. so essentially there is no consequence. He will continue to do it, because thats what he choses to do, and thats the path HE is on.  It doesnt mean u have to be on it with him.  You say u love him too much.  Does he love you the same?  The same would be him stopping what hes doing. 

 

I was in a similar destructive relationship for 3 years with a guy who was addicted to weed.  Yes, weed..its possible!  Leaving him was the best thing I could have ever done.  The countless ups and downs..fighting over the same thing constantly (yes, the ONLY thing we fought about..him quitting) Having to basically babysit a boyfriend..not my idea of a good time!  He should be responsible enough to make his own decisions. Verbal/mental abuse cuz ur under the influence..not my problem!  I deserved better than that, and so do you!  He needs to make the effort, or you're out! 

hal26 hal26:

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