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Member Since: 03/29/08
Last Login: 02/19/10
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Program Progress: Day 92
Member Since: 03/29/08
Last Login: 02/19/10
Viewed: 4585
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 92
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| red meat |
| qi gong/no beer challenge |
| wasting time |
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| PFR Challenge |
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holla123's Life List:
| Learn another language - man, I've wanted this for years. I've got some of the basics of French but it needs A LOT of work... |
| Overcome fear of public speaking - this is something that I have struggled with for years. I do remember a time when i was younger when I felt more carefree and at ease in the moments when I had to talk in front of people. Now, I shrink back into the corner with sweaty palms and a pounding heart when asked to speak in front of people. This would be a huge hurdle to overcome and would make me feel so much better. |
| How about find a group of good friends to hang out with - I am so damn tired of staying in every weekend and not having anyone cool to hang out with. |
| Dating more - jeeze, having the presence of a woman and new perfume in my life can do wonders...it's like a drug and it is only natural to desire this. Without it I feel like I am withering... |
| Ah ha! How about a good, healthy relationship. - it's been awhile, has it not Benjamin? I want to find someone that is a good match and a life partner. |
| Financial independence. By this I mean a steady source of good income. Money that is in an abundance and will allow me to live a good lifestyle. |
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says: Where you are is exactly where you need to be. Observing and noting will gradually produce the change you want. Change is sometimes slow but as I read what you wrote I saw the gradual manifestation of the change. Just keep doing exactly what you have started and you'll be ok. Enjoy the process now you will in the future.
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FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT
We've all done what you've just described.
If you "act as if.." eventually the proper emotion and feeling will fall into allignment.
Now the checklist: this is where you must creatively manage; if you sit at a computer you can reference it all day. If not, use 3x5 index cards, pos-it notes, or something of the similar.
Remember, you get out of it what you put in!
Hope that helps!!!
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says: i just do the best i can , somedays i finish all of it. somedays i miss some of it.never have missed all of it . dont beat yourself up about it just keep on and we will get to the end together1 day 24!