Knowing what you really want is the first step in getting what you really want. How often do you see or hear something and think "that's nice, maybe that's what I should do?" Sometimes, so many "that's nice" things/opportunities come along that you lose clarity on what you really want. You get to decide. Do you want "that's nice" and bounce from thing to thing or will you stay focused on your goals? The choice is yours.
1. Make prompt decisions. Do you always struggle between two differing opinions? A person who makes quick decisions will most likely get what she wants. She creates circumstances and willingly tackles obstacles that get in the way. With a quick decision, firm will and clear focus, she is bound to get what she wants.
2. Have a thirst for knowledge. Do you already know it all? What do you already know? What do you want to know? Whatever you do in a new situation can present some difficulty. A person who uses prior knowledge to gather, analyze and assimilate new information will help keep difficulties from becoming overwhelming and go for what she wants.
3. Develop an overall plan. Do you just go with the flow? Begin by finding new and creative ways to fit all the pieces together. Think of the plan as if it is a puzzle, do you have the box top with the picture on it or do you get to figure it out? Look beyond routine effort to recognize as many opportunities as possible to put the plan together to get what you want.
4. Expect great things. Is just anything okay? In order to achieve your goals, you must set the intention, expect, demand and assume that you will have it. There is little room for chance when you go forth with self confidence in your expectation. It doesn’t matter what others think of you; you must believe in yourself to get what you want.
5. Accept change. Are you resistant to new situations or ideas? Change is inevitable whether planned or unplanned and occurs frequently. Accepting and embracing change provides the freedom to open the door to new opportunity. Look for ways to use old knowledge and ideas in a new way (change). Use change as a proactive way to get what you want.
6. Manage stress. Are you on an emotional roller coaster? Some stress is unavoidable; the way you handle it will determine if it interferes with your goals or you manage it and go forth. You will have ups and downs, enjoy the ups and use the downs for reflection and evaluation. If you let it, the pressure can feel overwhelming. Look for the problem that is causing the stress and remove it. Stay focused on the end result and not on the process of getting there.
7. Ask for help, then listen. It is your goal but you might need some help getting there. You don’t have to do it all. It’s okay to share your passion and ask for help from someone you trust. Listen courteously and show appreciation.
Remember, this is your goal and you can have what you really want. Practicing the seven steps to having what you want will empower you to create the life you long for.
Inez Bracy, Lifestyle Transitions Coach
http://www.overfiftyfineandfancy.com
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