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Sat, Mar 13 09:15 AM

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its ironic how i done my tools today and its about fears.  I think thats my number 1 problem i got a fear of everything... from relationship, to sexual proffmance, to career failer, and many more.  I having troble with getting the checklist everyday... im getting better at not complaining and not making excuses. but i still fear so much in my life.

 

i have started the gym and am i sore just after a few days.  Im glad im going thou, i know that it only get's easier with each workout and day that passes.  I need to start setting a goal for myself, i dont know if i should set big/long term ones or short one... ive never set goals for myself ever which im thinking is a product of my fears... im starting to find that this is a tough part of my life that i need to change.  but i will work through tools one day at a time.. and i know that it gets easier as i start to get my head around everything

 

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 How's the program going? I'm feeling pretty good about it. I really liked the day on 'fear', it is an issue I felt has really held me back from time to time in my life. That days Tools really helped me realize that I'm harboring fears that have never done me any good and never really protected me from anything, except things that deep down I want (fear performing for people, girls I was really interested in....my drive in life comes from a fear of failure). Can't really think of a time when it has done me much good. Felt good to do the exercises that day.

  So how's the work out routine? Sticking to it? I started a push up routine a week ago (weak, I know, but it's a start) and I am bummed when I'm not sore the next day. When I'm not sore it makes me feel like I didn't do enough the day before and my efforts were for nothing. So be glad that you are sore, that means it's working.

 As far as goals go, I've never been good at them either. I'm sure Devlyn has got a plan for us.

John 

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hey john

the program is great.  yeah yesterdays "fear" really made me think about all the stuff i do fear.... which is silly like the boogieman... but i still find myself fearful of stupied stuff.  The workout routine is going good... its only been a couple of days, good to hear that you've started a push-up routine too.  Dont' get on yourself if your not sore the next day, hey you start a routine and thats a great step bro... anyways shout out to ya bro

joe