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Birth Date: Mon, Jun 22 1981

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new london ohio, United States (map)

I am: Single & Not Dating

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Jobs: Massage Therapist

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Get my own place- I want a old house (farmhouse) with some land. I want to have my own garden, I want to have my own chickens, beef, ect.
plan my trip to Brazil
learn Portuguese- for my Brazil trip.
Live for the here and now.
I want my house cleaning business to be successful. and be so busy that I have to hire in help.
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I want to go to another country and teach english. I would prefer brazil first so i can visit my friends there.
work on my relationship with Ryan
do the splits
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  Jewel_ra

Sat, Feb 27 06:46 AM

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Ok Im working really hard at using my tools.

but what if I am surrounded by negative people and I seem to feed on them and become that way too?

how can I overcome letting myself let others affect me? 

how can I only worry about myself?

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JShawn JShawn:

Caring

If a person is negative and no matter what you do it they wont change is time to walk away (even if its family, friends, or lover). Don't let the negative people drag you down. Hopefully after you walk away they will look at your positive attitude as inspiration.

 

I have had issues with this one all my life. I am a really caring person and I will always be the first person to listen or help. The thing that I have learned is that there is a huge difference between helping and dragging a person. So this made me form a new way of thinking. "I will help as long as you help your self."

 

Hope that helps :)

Sunrose Sunrose:

overcome it...

The best part is that YOU can overcome it. I see by what you write that you answer your own question. The word overcome is a power word. Great blog.