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Member Since: 12/10/09
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Member Since: 12/10/09
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Well I love heavy metal, rock, punk and rap--
acid bath, slayer, propain, tool, pantera, black label society, down, soulfly, sepultura, disturbed, system of a down, korn, nickelback, rage against the machine, hed pe, white zombie, tesla, megadeth, slipknot, danzig, rot, pearl jam, superjoint ritual, sublime, mudvayne, L7, pink floyd, soil, queensryche, staind, suicidal tendencies, breaking benjamin, chimaira, sevendust, corrosion of conformity, prong, end ever, hatebread, clutch, led zeplin, godsmack, fight, type o negative, alice in chains, devildriver, offspring, testament, nirvana, ministry, crazy town, nine inch nails, 4 non blondes, lollipop lustkill, less than jake, fugazi, assorted jelly beans, cake, real big fish, rancid, nofx, mxpx, operation ivy, no doubt, pennywise, green day, blink 182, simple plan, dmx, ludacris, icp, petey pablo, bone thugs, twisted, the click, 2 pac, outcast, big, lil kim, snoop, dr.dre, 50 cent, 3 6 mafia, nelly, do or die, pretty ricky, too short, nasy boy click, foxy brown, sean paul, blackstreet, ice cube, master p, next, m & m, and ja rule -- there are more just can't think of them all
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Well im not a big book reader, my mind tends to wander when i read so i have to go over what im reading all the time, unless im totally interested. I do love Nirvana's Come as you are. Very good book.
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| Right now i just want to find inner happiness. I have always been a negative person and i have let it run my life. I dont want to be like that any more and i am finally ready to start being happy with life and with myself! |
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Happen to be on so here we go
First, stop the thinking...ha ha. Seriously, take a breath. Really take a deep breath in through your nose...hold in for a count of 5 and then blow out through your mouth. Okay, great. Get calm, center yourself.
Now, State out loud: "I accept myself as I am, and I am getting better everyday." Three times...
Great!
Now don't turn around, look at where you are, and what you want to do from right here. Don't focus on what you have been doing. What do you want to create for yourself from right where you are?
You want to create a better relationship with this new man? If that is what you want, you know what you need to do from where you are, don't you? I bet you know you have to cut and change your contact with the ex. I am sure you know what you need to do.
If you also want to create a better relationship with the new man, you know that starts from a place of self love. That means, working out and taking care of you is also a way to take care of a relationship.
You are powerful to make choices to get the results you want. Don't spend your energy wishing things will go away or work out, spend your energy making choices to create what you want.
You have the power. You know what you need to do, and you have the power to make the choices to move in the direction of what you want.
Move forward from where you are and use your power.
Now, State Out Loud: "I am powerful to create the life I want" Three times
Appreciating you and on your side...
Devlyn
Yea, What Devlyn said.
Well there is not much I can add you've gotten advice from the man himself. And as always it is wise advice. So I'm just here to support you and let you know you can do it. Like Devlyn I too appreciate you and am on your side. Keep on truck'n.
doing great
Hang in there girl ive been through the whole ex thing before and it sucks. It is really just one big game that he is playing. The whole if i cant have you i am going to make your life miserable. Dont let him get to you. From what you say sounds like you have a good man now. Just reassure him that you want nothing to do with your ex and keep your head up.