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I wouldn't get so hung up about telling her you like her, it's your actions that count. Take it for granted that she knows and start asking her out .
says: you've come to far to turn around. don't get laid in this moment face down!
says: Dude i have the same problem. May sound f'ed up but this will work to get that anxiety out. So say next time you see her is in a day capeesh. that day before seeing her pic the hottest chick within a 2 hour span to hit on and lay on the goods look like a loser make a freekin ass of yourself! She'll shut you down and after all that at the end you'll say "wow iam walkin, feel fine, livin, if i was that much of a douch and iam still walkin well hell here we go. You will laugh at it give you a glow. when you go to ask her you will bring confidence. Looked like a douche a bit ago and iam fine so your next babe i've always wanted. SLAP THAT ANXIETY IN THE FACE!
says: just do it and if you chicken out write a note and if you still cant make someone else like a good friend give it to her for you and have her give you a call
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Thanks for the help, people
That's all very good advice.
I hope it'll work out. I'll kick myself if I screw this up, this girl is absolutely unique. I'm extremely picky with girls, but with this girl everything seems to 'fit'.
I have been giving her complements
It's just so easy to complement her on something, since she has a lot of good qualities. And I think it just needs to be said!
I'm just having some trouble with thinking of a way to say it. I can't just go all like, "Hey, guess what? I like you!", I mean, that's just horrible. Any tips on how I should bring it?
Of course, I'll keep in mind that it's about what you do what's important
says: if she asks you that.......... she may be waiting for it!
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1. create attraction. don't tell her you like her. instead, if you know she likes you, turn it on her. Say something like, "You like me!" (in a kidding tone)
2. unless you are in the"friends" zone. if she likes you more than friends, then you are still in good shape. if you are just friends, then its harder to get her to be attracted to you.
good luck
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Ok as a woman, I would say that Sunrose and Echomom are right... You said you like talking to her, so you can talk to her as friends. I would try to tell her something when she asks what do you think... Cause we don't ask if we really don't want to know. Sounds like she wants to know you better! I'll tell you a secret, I really think it is cool when I make a guy nervous cause I'm nervous too. Wow he's nervous talking to me and I have butterflies bouncing around my stomach!
My mother used to tell me that men have a hard time telling women they love (ok like) women, they do it in small ways like doing stuff for you and buying you nice things. Don't start with buying nice things I find that offensive cause I can't be bought, but it's nice for someone to do nice things for you. Like opening the door for you. Or picking up something we dropped.......
But just be yourself......
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I agree with Sunrose, keep it simple and easy.
From another woman's perspective ... do you know what some of her interests or hobbies are? If you do, then you have an icebreaker for a longer conversation. If not, see if you can find out some of them ... simply ask her ... for example ... do you have any pets?
For lots of people pets is the easiest ice breaker in the world.
I know that when I go on a date with someone if they ask me about my animals, they're toast!! I LOVE my zoo, and I love to tell stories about them ... (I also have to remind myself to quit after 3-4 minutes just in case their eyes start to glaze over).
Show interest in what she likes ... but don't fake it. If you don't like what she's interested in, that's ok, but don't pretend to like it just because she does.
Most important ... relax ... most of us women are just as nervous as you are, some of us have just gotten better at hiding it!
says: O.k. as a woman I can tell you what I think. I think you should take the pressure off yourself by not having to come right out and say"I like You". You could just start out by giving her a complement, like you look very happy today. Or try to think of what some of the things that you do like about her are and just tell her that. If you do that she will start to like you. Then the next step would be to invite he to do something she would like,meeting at public place like a coffee shop or mall. Hope this gives you some ideas. Stick with "Tools to Life" and you will build you confidence up, that will help too.