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Tue, May 18 05:12 AM

Should I be worried??

 For years my wife and I have lacked an emotional connection in our marriage, and now suddenly my wife is chatting on facebook with an old boyfriend and it is tearing my up.  Should I be worried or happy for her?  She said it is allowing herself to feel again since her and the ex (over 17 years ago) had a troubled relationship and she has held those feelings against our marriage.  We have been married 12 years.  I cannot stop dweling on the fact my wife seems more excited to chat with others than talk with me.  But over the last few years, I guess we really have drifted apart and I understand I also  had a lack of emotions which added to the issues.  How do I get over these insecure feelings?  She tells me not to worry she has never felt better or stronger for us.

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