Hi Everyone
I have a question and I am looking for a answer. I have the answer some where in my soul. I am asking for help.
I have been with the program since May. I am still on day 15.
I know I am right where I need to be.
The relationship most dear to my Heart is really Toxic at the moment.
It is with my only Daughter.
3 Years ago she asked me to move to Tucson AZ. Iwanted to be close to her as well. She had only been married for year and was home sick for family since his family lives in town.
Now she has 2 kid's and needed my help almost every day.
I have taken out 3 years of my life to help her. I wanted to help, I was doing everything,cleaning cooking taking care of the kid's.
My grandson was born with some speacial needs and it was hard with a 2 year on hand as well. Her husband works and goes to school at night. My daughter had her hands full.
Now she informs me that she is doing fine and for the past 2 years I am always over.
That was a slap and I was hurt. I was there when she was on bed rest, helped out when she asked .
I felt she just dismissed me.
I have been feeling that our relationship is in trouble. She will say hurtful things and I cry.Because I don't want to be a hurtful as she is.
I am thinking of moving back to San Diego and get my Life back. Go back to work and find something I love to do.
I don't think I can do it being so close to her.Every day there is one more thing that hurt's.
We need space apart.
Any advice anyone?
Thank You All In Advance
Kathy
