Ive been coming to tools for nearly 3 years now. It has made a huge difference in my life. I set goals every 3 months now and get alot out of them! I have come a long way, having nearly completed Phase XII (qty12 of 3 months sections of small goals).
As with anything, we do it long enough, we get pretty comfortable with it and perhaps a bit lazy. I do anyhow. It is time for me to to plan Phase XIII. I am considering restarting the TTL program to brush up on my skills and try setting longer term goals by just signing on and re-reading and reworking the tools to get back on track. I have alot of sorting to do, not sure what way I will go, but I do know, it is time to get back to some basics. I wish there was a TTL2. lol!
Erasing 3 paragraphs and summarizing. I am unhappy about a particular situation in a relationship. It means I need to get a real job, become financially independant, and move on. It is not something I "want" to do but If I continue on the same path, nothing will change. I cannot change someone else but I am left with no other alternatives to resolve this. I made it clear, it changes or I leave. Im sad, but its time for me to stand up for me. Maybe making my stand, he will see the light. i hope so, but for certain... Ill have my own life again!