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Mon, Jul 12 09:37 PM

stuck in a rut

 i feel unmotivated in life. i procrastinate to the fullest and it seems like im waiting for life to happen to me. i didnt always use to be like this but it seems i've lost faith in humanity and life as a whole. i dont care about meeting new people anymore because everyone seems to be out for their own good, which is not a problem except they fuck other people over to do so. i really dont like people right now. im stuck in a rut and need to pull my ass out; me, i need to.

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hiself hiself:

You're not alone

You're not alone

You're not alone

 

Although it may seem that the frequency of the bad outweighs the good, the weight of the one good will outweigh all the bad.  Try to look for the good and you will see it more often.  Enjoy.

coachgang coachgang:

Plug the Rut

I get what you're saying and yeah, people do seem to be out for themselves.  One thing I've learned and try to keep reminding myself is that you cannot control other people.  You can't control their thoughts or motivations.  Be true to you and what you are about.  If you run into someone with an alterior motive, tell yourself that "they just fucked up meeting a great person" and move on.  I'm sure you've heard that "there are plenty of fish in the sea" when down on yourself about dating.  Same applies here.  There are good people out there; there are people like you out there.  You just have to get into groups or clubs with like-minded passions to find some of them.  And if there wasn't anyone good to meet this time, well, at least you had fun doing whatever it was that the club was about.  Yeah?  Let me know if you need to chat...

speeding speeding:

thats why tools is here

I was in a horrible rut and am a huge procrastinator.  I wasnt always like this either and felt the same ways about people.. I stopped caring about friendships.. girls were all whores, etc.. Keep trucking and get a bunch of days under your belt and it definitely pulls you out of that.  Parts of it will take more time than others but as you bring some areas into focus the rest will start to improve.  You can do it!

JennysMom JennysMom:

Lucky you

You found just the right place at just the right time.

 

Keep coming back.  This is a good habit to have.

cheetah7712 cheetah7712:

I feel ya...

I was in the same place when I started this... lost faith in a lot of people and have been totally disappointed so many times... but there really is a lot of good out there still. This program is great. Stick with it and talk to the "good people" here and you"ll start to change your mind and attract more positive into your life. :-)

forbish07 forbish07:

Do it!!

You say you want it so DO IT!!  Nothing is stopping you except you!!  Follow along and use the TOOLS that this program provides and you will accomplish your goals!!  Hang in there!!