My motto for the past 15 years has been "Life is Good".
I live it every day. I live a life in JOY
Sure I get 'down' sometimes but I have been about as low as it can get in the past and I have decided never to go THERE again if I can possibly avoid it!
I am sensitive. Sometimes words hurt me. but I have come to learn that "what others think of me is none of my business!" and that takes a lot of the pressure off me.
I love many people but I am a single father at the moment. I work, look after my daughters, look after three international homestays , look after 200 international students at a hair school and run a business so sometimes I feel I am time poor. I don't seem to have enough time to be a MAN! to reward myself. To give to a relationship.
So I compensate with one small square of dark chocolate every day! Ahh! such decadence. LIFE IS GOOD!
Sometimes love hurts too. But the way I look at it is "if you love something let it go and if it comes back it was meant to be". sometimes girls don't like that. They like to be needed. and maybe my attitude is damaging my chances.... what do you think?