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Member Since: 10/03/11
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Member Since: 10/03/11
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Program Progress: Day 7
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Tools Goal List:
Areas In My Life I Want To Work On
- - Weight
- - Career
- - Relationship
- - Getting in shape
- - Finances
- - Education
I Want To Quit Or Control
Skills I Am Interested In
- - Goal setting
- - Public speaking
- - Focus
- - Management
- - Motivation
I Suffer From
- - Anxiety
- - Depression
- - Low self-esteem


















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You have a choice -- and the decision is yours alone. You can choose to believe something good/posiitive/helpful/fun/light (etc) or you can choose to believe somethng bad/sad/hurtful/depressing/dark. Its as simple as that. You don't have to make it happen and you don't have to find the facts to support your belief. You simply get to choose which 'side' you believe....at the moment. One of the slogans of AA is "fake it till you make it". Well, this is similiar: you get to choose the lightness or the dark. Why would anyone chose the dark side when you can just as easily chose the light sde?