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mellynobelly

Birth Date: Sun, Apr 30

Place of residence:
Elmo utah, United States (map)

I am: Single & Dating

Schools: some college

Jobs: head custodian

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Member Since: 11/20/08
Last Login: 06/10/09
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Music:

I Love Aerosmith, Queen, and Garth Brooks. I love Yoga and Native American music to relax to, and when I am driving I love classic rock and Pop.

Books:

I recently read Every Word Has Power/Oswald. I love books about self improvement, new age, and spirituality.

Favorite Places:

I am from a small town, so I really enjoy quiet places. I love the smell of the pine trees in the mountains, the waves and sand at the ocean, and the desert near my home.

I Want To See:

Ireland. I promised myself I would go there before I die. I have felt such a strong pull to go there since I was a very small child. I feel like I have a renuion waiting for me there, and I have not idea who or what I will be connceting with I just know I need to go.

Hobbies:

Painting, decorating, and cleaning. I actually make pretty good money painting custom murals in peoples homes. And YES I did say cleaning...I love to clean.

Activities:

I love painting beautiful pictures, becoming one with music, books that expose me to new ideas and concepts, my kids, and friends and family. I really enjoy walking and lifting weights. I am also very fond of water sctivities. I always have fun in the water no matter what I am doing!

Sports:

I am not really into "sports", but I do love walking and lifting weights, and swimming.

Movies:

I have four kids, (and I am single), so the only movies I have seen in the past few years are Disney movies, luckily I have enjoyed them. But when I do get to rent a movie of my choice, I will rent movies like DaVinchie Code, Anything with Johnny Depp in it, and I love a good mystery.

TV:

Thank God for DVR's, otherwise the only TV I would see would be...you guessed it Disney. But I always record Law and Order and watch when the kids are asleep.

Heroes:

My mom..She just finished her fight against Breat Cancer..we hope she will be cancer free forever!!!!

I Want To Meet:

Johnny Depp, Joe Perry, and hopefully MR. right...

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Areas In My Life I Want To Work On

I Want To Quit Or Control

- Temper

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I Suffer From

- Anxiety
- Low self-esteem

mellynobelly's Life List:

Lost 45 more lbs.

Buy my new home

Become comfortable in my own skin.

Paint the lunchrrom at school

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I am 37 years young.... I have the four best kids in the world! and I have a job I enjoy, friends I adore, and a wonderful and supportive family.

I am an orginizational genius. I have been that way since birth, (so my mom says) I am one of those people who, when upset, will clean to settle down. My closets are always organized, and my dises always clean. But the down side to this is that looking back on my life I think I missed out on a few adventures because I had to clean my house. So two years ago when my marriage of 10 yrs ended, and I was left to raise my four kids alone, I had to take a long hard look at what really mattered in life. What I learned was this.....

When my kids are adults, they won't remember how clean our house was.. if it wasn't a happy place to live.

They won't care that my closets were immaculate...because I never had time to read to them.

They WILL remember the hugs, the trips, the books and my time.

So here I am today, older and wiser, and a whole lot happier than I ever thought I could be. The only thing I am missing is my better half. I figure that I will be led to him, when I have done all the work necessary to be worthy of the man I deserve.

I am the middle of seven children. I was born right in the middle of five brothers. My only sister is seven years older than me, so naturally I was the toughest girl in the neighborhood.

I married my first husband two weeks after I graduated from High School. We were married for eight years, and had one child together. We divorced when my son was two. My marriage had been pretty abusive, and when I could see the abuse starting with my son, I knew it was time to get out, so I took what I could fit in my car, and left.

I met my second husband shortly after my seperation. I thought he was my dream guy, but the problem was, I never gave myself time to heal from my painful marriage, and jumped right into another one. I was too young to realize that if you don't deal with your feelings and try to find the lessons in life, you will just keep repeating them until you finally slow down and learn, soooo, after ten years and three more kids, my second marriage ended. I was devastated! I did not think I could go on without him. He had told me for the past ten years how worthless I was, and I had started to believe him. Thanfully I had my kids to live for. I did not have the choice to give up. My kids needed me to be strong. And amazingly enough I found my strength, and little by little, I am reconnecting with that tough little girl who had five brothers. In the past year I have lost 82 lbs. Purchased anew car, and already have it paid for, and will be buying a brand new home for me and the kids this year. I have done more, and grown stronger because I have not rushed into anything.

I have stopped and listened for the lessons and tried very hard to learn from them. I made myself a promise...I would never date again until the day I could look myself in the mirror and KNOW who I was. I would only date again when I could honestly say I was doing it because I wanted to NOT because I needed to be taken care of. I will NEVER again surrender my independence to anyone. I am my own savior. I cannot ever expect anyone else to solve my problems, because they are my lessons to learn from.

I am a beautiful, loving. loyal person. I am successful, dependable, and positive, but most of all I am strong......

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I joined TOOLS because:

My youngest brother told me about this site and how much he enjoyed it and suggested that I check it out. When I did I immediately knew it was something wonderful. (Thanks Lenny)

You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:

A criminal psychologist

My favorite wild animal is:

Lion

Why (describe as much as possible):

Because he is at the top of his game. Everyone in the wild respects him because he has proven that he is worthy of that respect.

My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):

Black Labs

Why:

They are so loving, loyal, and gentle. You always know where you stand with a Black Lab. They are incapable of dishonesty.

A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:

I tell him to surprise me with his favorite dish....

Why:

Because then I can get to see what his interests are, and can hopefully have both a good meal and a good conversation.

Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::

My four kids..I would also like to invite Eckhart Tole.

Why:

Because if I was having a great meal, I would definately want to share it with them, they are my favorite thing in the whle world. I have a million questions for Eckhart, and would love to meet him in person.

If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:

Ireland

My perfect slice of pizza is:

Thin crust, with ham and pineapple and lots of sauce..

You are at a bar. You order this drink:

watermellon daqueri

You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:

hazelnut coffee

If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):

Intelligence, Great Sex,and of course lots of money...

You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):

Enigma, Queen greatest hits, and Brule

If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:

Put in a sidewalk along the road. (I live in a very small town, and believe it or not we don't have sidewalks, you still have to walk down the middle of the road, and I wish we had sidwalks for my kids)

A sunset I remember:

The day my grandma died,I was walking home from her funeral and the sky lit up with the most beautiful purple and pink sunset I had ever seen. I knew right then that she would always be with me no matter what. She always loved it when the sunset had shades of purple in it, so I knew this one was from her.

Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:

Counselor Deanna Troy from Star Trek the next Generation.

Why:

She has my dream job, she is georgous, and just posseses all the traits that I hope to someday posess myself. What more can I say?

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