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Tue, Jun 15 04:45 AM

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 Hi everyone, I don't really blog very much but I have been feeling overwhelmed lately and I can't seem to shake it.It just seems like evertime I try to move on and be positive that all these things pile up to hold me back.I would love to go into detail but it would take forever to say everything.It is Like a barrage of bullS**t and I am drowning in it.I am probably one of the happiest guys I know and all my friends go on about how they don't understand How I can be so Happy and positive after all of the things I have had to deal with.Many of the things are out of my control but still affect me emotionally, finacially, and mentally.I know my life is my decision and my attitude is my decision but how do you deal with the outside influences on your life that you can't do anything about but need to deal with on a daily basis.

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CHAPTER...

DO WRITE A CHAPTER IF U NEED TO...I KNO I DO...

 

ITS HARD TO CONTROL WOT HAPPENDS INDIRECTLY TO US. I KNO ALL ABOUT OBSTICLES...JUST WHEN I THINK THINGS R GONNA TAKE A GOOD TURN, BANG! SUMTHIN BAD HAPPENS!!! N WE TAKE A FEW STEPS BAK N TRY TO TAKE BALANCE AGAIN. BUT ITS HARD...BUT ITS LIKE COACH SAYS...TO EVERY PROBLEM/OBSTICLE THERS AN OPPORTUNITY.

 

WE NEED TO PRESS THE STOP BUTTON ON THE NEGATIVE RERUN MOVIE OF NEGATIVITY.

ITS HARD, NOT EASY AT ALL...BUT ONCE THE FIRST STEP HAS BEEN TAKEN ULL FEEL MORE MOTIVATED.

 

PS. IT REALLY HELPS TO BLOG..

Keep blogging

I agree with Tania, blogging here is a really good way to work through stuff that's going on in your life. Everyoneis really supportive and they give fantastic advice!

 

As for your question about how to deal with stuff in your life you can't control, remember just that! The only thing you can control is yourself, your attitude, and the way you behave with regard to whatever it is that life throws at you. So whenever I feel overwhelmed by things happening around me and I feel down because of outside circumstances I try to remind myself that it's no use worrying about things that are out of my control and in stead try to figure out a plan of action that will allow me to make the best of wherever I am at the moment. I know that's so much easier said than done and I most definitely don't always succeed, but whenever I do I can notice the positive effect.

 

Wishing you a wonderful week and looking forward to hearing how you get on!

 

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Exactly what they said ^^^^^^

Write it down.  So what if it takes an hour or more, we will read it and give any advice we can  on it, thats what this community is here for!!  We are here to offer comments and advice.  It is usually easier to look from the outside in and see what changes can be made or what you can do etc.  So if you are up for it my man, write about it!  We dont judge!!  We all joined TOOLS for pretty much the same reasons, to improve our lives!!  So let us try and help you!!  I cannot offer any sound advice right now because when I read it all I see is that you have no control over the situation but maybe you do a little, so again, if your willing to write it down and put yourself out there, we WILL try our best to help you out!!  

I'm here to help I'm here to help

bogged down

The only way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time!  I feel pretty bogged down myself lately but it's all about the right attitude and continuing to make the right decisions.  You can do it my friend!

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SUCH GREAT ADVICE....

 

IM JUST ADDING ANOTHER THING..

 

SUMTIMES ITS EASYER TO HELP OTHERS N GIVE ADVICE TO OTHERS THAN TO OURSELVES.BUT IN THE WAY OF HELPING OTHERS WE TRULY R HELPING OURSELVES.

 

SO ITS TWO IN ONE!

 

I EXPECT TYO SEE A LONG CHAPTER FROM U TODAY!!!