twistedturv: 2010-01-30

says: be happy with your self, nobody can complete someone else,but they can bring love and joy,pain and hurt.

RobertFarrell: 2008-07-17

says: No one can complete you but God and you. The more desparately I want something, the slimmer my chances are that I'll get it. For me, I have had to learn to let go of desires, or more accurately, have them let go of me. When I have been secure in who I am, the things I want come, or they don't, but it doesn't matter. This isn't an overnight process. It took me a long time and many mistakes to learn this. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle helped me though. Good luck and God bless.

muteki.abraham: 2008-02-22

says: I just broke up with the first g/f I've ever had a few months ago. We were together for more than a year, and we were really close. For awhile, I thought I was going to die, and now that I'm finally starting to get used to it, I'm actually enjoying some of the benefits of being single. I'm really looking forward to finding out who the Lord brings into my life next, but until then, I'm trying to put the past behind me and enjoy the situation I'm in right now. I was going to say, "I know that might not help you to find the other half of your circle," but I just remembered something; I read somewhere that members of the opposite sex find us most attractive when we seem to have it together. I also read, "fake it until you make it!" I've been faking it for awhile, but now the good face I've been showing to other people has started smiling back at me. It looks like this question has been up for awhile, so I don't know if my answer is relevant anymore; but I can tell you that just writing this has helped me feel better!

affirmwealth: 2007-12-15

says:

I ask myself the same question....I'm with ya, let me tell ya.

But for some reason, everyone that I know or come across seems so convinced that there is someone out there just for me.

So many people seem so sure, that I think that maybe they see something that I just haven't been able to see.

So in the meantime, I just stay focused on my own self-development, and reaching my own personal goals.  I feel that whoever is meant for me, will find me, so I don't need to stress about it.

And what Adam said is key:  "How do I make myself a full circle, and find other full circles?"  So powerful!  That helped me, too.  Thanks, Adam.

Anyhow,

You're not alone

Cathie: 2007-12-10

says:

Mindovermatter,

   I like Adam's approach.  That was going to be my next guess.  I like the image of intertwining circles.   I still find it hard to think of myself as a half a person.

I have and still have losses in my life (of people, animals, etc) and I find that I am still whole.

Soulmates, well, I believe we are blessed with many.....so seek, knock and Wow! the doors (notice plural) will be opened......

Peace, love and blessings,

Cathie

Cathie: 2007-12-09

says: sent you a private message, hope it helps

Rockin_Achiever: 2007-12-09

says:

I would say to you to start asking yourself a better quality of question.

How can you make yourself a full circle?  How can you find other full circles with whom to intertwine.  

Remember, the questions we ask ourselves determine what we focus on and what we get in our life.

Keep rockin,

Adam