I have introduced TOOLS to my partner and she is somewhat receptive to it. She has been clapping and saying I'm having a great day and looking in the mirror etc....I even read her the notes and train the brain because she does not want to use the computer and would rather lay in bed and watch tv..........so at least she is SOMEWHAT receptive to TOOLS. She does have one thng that she will not let herself do in TOOLS. She sets the alarm and hits the snooze about 5 times. I have told her from the beginning of our relationship that it was bad for her sleep patern to do this. Now she will not stop...even though TOOLS tells you to and she sees how much better my life is....so...do I just worry about MY life and keep doing what I am doing with her and be grateful that she is at least listening to some of it.....or WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST to make her try to set her alarm for one time, shut it off and get up as if it was her birthday EVERY DAY!