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Sun, Aug 30 08:27 AM

am i trying too hard

  well this is the first blog ive ever wrote ive completed day 3 and am about 2 hrs away from doing day 4 i think this is a great program i got my wife on it too im so happy that she doing it i find my self so frusterated with her though its almost noon and shes still sound asleep she hasnt worked in months and its like pulling teeth to get her to do any thing around the house and she costintly spending we disscussed last night that its like she needs drama in her life  the harder i try to make it work the harder she trys to distance us we ave been together for 10 years and married for 5 the crazy thing is for most of that i could take it or leave it wich i understand was never a good atitude but thats how i felt but now for what ever reason i enjoy being married and having a family im so sick of fighting and yelling at her to get up and do something i just dont know what to do or wich way to go i love her and i know she loves me i feel like i have another kid rather than a wife a partner maybe im making way too big of a deal over it but im on the road for a week at a time killing my self and then i come home on weekends and work my butt off on things around the house while she sleeps all day what can i do to help the situation besides loosing my mind

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Focus on positve

Does she have chronic pain?  Is she derpessed?  What is her self worth?  Is she bored?

 

Many times the emotions from any of these things will beat you down and you don't feel like you have purpose or value.  It's hard to face a day or to have energy for it when these emotions steal it from you.  Then add the fighting....

 

Try to focus on the positive changes you want for yourself then the energy will change in your relationship then she will do this program because she's infuenced by your changes. 

 

Pick three nice things that you can say about her everyday.  Not the negative you see.

Ask her to do the same.  Tell each other these things.  Then pick three nice things you can say about your self...look in the mirror and say them out loud.  Watch the tension melt.