Gregus: 2008-09-14

says:

Just don't go there, these things are inevitably more complex then they appear to be.

Find happiness for yourself based on your own goals and expectations.

Good luck

Greg

Sunrose: 2008-08-25

says: You are young and pretty so you should find someone without an ex.  I think going out with a coworker's ex is not going to be easy. You will have to go with what is right for you. Don't feel presure from the woman about her ex-husband! He wasn't good enough for her, right?

Karen54: 2008-08-24

says:

 I have a lot of questions about this.

  And just how does she think she is going to set you two up together? 

 Did she tell you why they divorced in the first place?  Did they have kids? 

If they had children, I would think she wants an in with you to get at him, then maybe she could get her way with th children.  Does she have jealously? 

 Is she trying to make up for the divorce.?

 I think You are right to seek advice.   Maybe it is just as simple as she sees you like the same things as she does. 

If you do happen to go out, go in a group so you can decide for yoursel if he has the qualities you like.  Also if you are looking for love... Please take the time to write out what you want in a man. It is kind of part of tools already.  

Well that is my piece.  And as far as your friend playing match maker.  She is on dangerous territory.  Most of all, I hope you find some one who loves you just for you and doesn't want to change you.  If the man is crtical towards you and others... Please Say no thanks.   He is way too immature at this time.  And do't even think you can cahnge a man.  The more you thnk that way the more entrenced they will get. (Maybe we are all that way... can you tell I don't listen to Political Correctedness like I should?