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Birth Date: Wed, Feb 06 1974

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Denton TX, United States (map)

I am: Married

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Member Since: 02/02/09
Last Login: 11/26/11
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otter's Life List:

Become a full circle

Stop making assumptions of what people are thinking about me.

Not to be so critical of myself

Quit taking things personally

like who i am

have a better relationship with my husband

really know my kids

quit smoking

stop being a Martyr

Let go of anger

get a grip on my emotions

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Drama Garden

I have been guilty of cultivating drama gardens. Plant a problem, watch it grow and then feast on the fruit. After I have gorged on the fruit I then complain and allow it to sink me to depths close to no return. It is almost if I can talk a small thing into a large thing with my own power. Th»

Intentions were good, the motivation was all wrong

Last night I went back a re-read my goals, read my past blogs. My original goals and issues appeared to be about me, but they were not. It would seem to anyone else that this was not the case, but when you lie to yourself in writing, the only one who knows is you. They were about others, be it my hu»

sleeping with a misquito

Am I ever really going to get it? I had been doing so good on Tools and made it to day 42. Then I got cocky, sassy and over confident and just stopped. I haven’t even logged on to cheer a blog. I was feeling great, but the crash from great is hard and fast. It always seems to be a small»

Day 37 and feeling like a Ninja

I am so glad I took my time getting through the goals week (day 28 - 35). I have a problem with being 'random' or 'fickle' about ideas. I will get an idea, start something but not finish it. Now I understand the who what where when whys and hows of goal setting and achieving......I k»

35 days ~ holey jeans batman

If I had started tools with the goal to make it to day 35 I never would have done it. I started with the attitude of lets just check this out, then it was I wonder what coach is going to say today, then it became a goal everyday day, to log in. It has taken me since February to get to 35 days, but t»

Do you Stop digging the hole ~

I am worried about moving forward. I know next week is relationships ~ and that is the place I am manic about. I have been married for 17 years and I am worried that if I start digging into the in’s and out’s of my relationship I may learn that deep down I know that it isn’t good f»

Absent but not Gone

I missed a day on Tools.....I was sick and knew if i did the day it wouldnt sink in. So I listened to my voice and it said ' it can wait until tomorrow' On another note.....i silenced my little voice and died my own hair over the weekend.....Boy that was bad......I did get in fixed. Ma»

Fools Rush In

Wow....I was so upset that I hadn't heard from my man while he was on his vacation. I made several assumptions, that lead me to question his commintments to me. We have been married for 17 years, have two great daughters and work well together as a team. When he got home late last night fr»

Hooray!

I have had a bear of a week and for an otter that is scary...... I can say that i have grown stronger this week. Just being aware of thoughts and how they relate to my actions has been enligtining. My husband got a great job and wasnt even looking, I made it through yet another round of »

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