otter's Blog

Birth Date: Wed, Feb 06 1974

Place of residence:
Denton TX, United States (map)

I am: Married

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Last Login: 11/26/11
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- Smoking

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otter's Life List:

Become a full circle

Stop making assumptions of what people are thinking about me.

Not to be so critical of myself

Quit taking things personally

like who i am

have a better relationship with my husband

really know my kids

quit smoking

stop being a Martyr

Let go of anger

get a grip on my emotions

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I giant light bulb just went off

When you are on a plane and the crew runs down the security protocols and they get to the part about the oxygen masks:

'first put on your mask and then help the person sitting next to you'.

That should apply to all relationships too.

I think a part of my problem is that I help everyone around me, not just just the one sitting next to me and then I can't breathe. Then I wonder why I cant cope.