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Dunedin Otago, New Zealand (map)

I am: Single & Not Dating

Schools: Taupo Primary, Taupo Intermediate, Taupo-nui-a-Tia College, Otago University

Jobs: Current-Researcher/Academic Previous- Tutor, Laboratory Demonstrator, Volunteer Worker (SPCA- Society for the Protection of Animals; RDA- Riding for the Disabled; Women's Refuge Crisis Worker), Clinical Psychologist, Counsellor, Waitress, Kitchen-Hand.


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I do this!!

 

 

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  pehi

Sun, Oct 19 12:58 PM

I do this!!

 

Today on tools I get told the exercise is to do what I LOVE to do!  Which is go and read about others and to give them positive feedback!!  This is so not a chore for me, and I actually have lamented not spending more time doing it, it is just that when I start, I just get lost in this world of amazing people who are so brave and courageous to share their lives and their hurts and their triumphs with the rest of us so that we may learn and be touched and be inspired!!

I LOVE this exercise!  And I LOVE to validate others.  I decided a long time ago that if I felt or thought something really positive about someone, I would say it to them.  And to thank others for the things they did, because I noticed how much we take others for granted, ESPECIALLY those closest to us.  And I got tired of complaining about how others didn't appreciate me etc. and paid attention to what I did.  And guess what?  Once I released the need to be validated and concentrated on doing it myself, I started to be validated!!  A recurrent theme in my life.  I release the need, and it turns up in my life.  Don't ask me how it works, I have me theories, but the main thing is, it WORKS!!  Do or BE the thing you desire and it is attracted to you I guess :-)

Anyway, I am away to read and boost and bless!!

Blessings to all- Love to you all- Keep on keeping on!

Pip

 

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What A Beautiful Soul!


You deserve a star You deserve a star

So nice when you figure it out!

Pip

 

Sounds like you figured it out.  Hope you do more of it if it really moves your soul.

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Yes - you certainly do!! Thanks for keeping on boosting those around you. xx