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Member Since: 04/08/10
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Program Progress: Day 15
Member Since: 04/08/10
Last Login: 11/01/10
Viewed: 5767
Program in:
Program Progress: Day 15
Pooki's Challenges:
Pooki's Participating:
Pooki's Participating:
| Daily Meditation |
| Commitment |
| PFC |
| PFR Challenge |
| 3 out of 5 To Do List everyday |
| Situps |
| Task List |
| To Do List! |
| Get Organized, get a plan |
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Pooki's Life List:
| To have self esteem - I could lead a happy and productive life. |
| be debt free |
| Be working in a job I am happy in |
| find out what intersts do I have |
| Learn to stop being a people pleaser |
| Stop being a co dependant |
| What do I want? |
| stick with my decisions |
| Learn to say no and not feel guilty |
| be confident |
comments
i dont now if I havw th best advice but...
in my opinion it seems very weak of someone to end a relationship of the much time via an email. Excuse my language but, What A Pussy!
I know I have been in a few situations and never got the closure I needed, so I just had to let go. And that's when it seems things will work themselves out....
Be good to yourself. You've found this program so you got your foot in the door ;D
Sorry if my advice isn't the best, I hope you stay strong and know you WILL get through this. Time does heal all wounds...
Hang in there
My thoughts and sympathies go out to you.
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Yourself
Think of yourself first and put yourself first in this situation. Do what is best for you and move on. You have the power and the strength to do it!
Reverse Tool
Not to get ahead of the program or anything, but I just read today about using the "Reverse Tool" before you take an action and thought that you could use it to apply to situations like this. You'll get to it and get a better explanation, but basically it is this. Before you make a decision, think of what the results will be. You have to be honest with yourself too. I am sure if you would have seen how bad it would make you feel afterward, you would not have given in to the feelings you had at the time. I know with relationships it is hard, especially when you are used to acting one way around a person and all of a sudden it changes. We can fool ourselves into thinking that this action will make it all better, but if we are honest with ourselves, we can prevent making mistakes that do not benefit us.
You are a strong, amazing person that is taking the right steps to move forward. Of course there will be places along the way where we have setbacks, but this is a 90 day program, so have patience and trust in the process. You WILL get to where you want to be! I have faith in you. You need to have that same faith in yourself and realize that you don't need that fool in your life.
(I know it's easier said than done, just trying to be encouraging!)