Member Since: 01/20/07
Last Login: 02/22/07
Program Progress: Day 24
I have no answer for you but I'm writing to say these are important questions. I think when we make a change there are "bad" feelings even if the change is a good one. The feelings are not the best guide for what is the right and best thing. I believe. Anyway, I wish you a good tomorrow.
While going through the divorce, I wrote a note to myself that I carried with me. The note covered all the reasons that I divorced him.
I'd whip that paper out any time I was getting a bit melancholy or a case of the guilts. That might help you.
He is a man. He will be fine. You are not responsible for him anymore.
You have my permission to make yourself happy.