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Birth Date: Sat, Dec 19 1959

Place of residence:
Nanaimo BC, Canada (map)

I am: Single & Not Dating

Schools: Okotoks Jr/Sr High, SAIT, UofC, Malaspina University/College

Jobs: office manager and bookkeeping


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Member Since: 09/28/07
Last Login: 07/11/13
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get married
take a vacation to someplace sunny and warm
buy my own home
learn spanish
hike the west coast trail

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Fri, Nov 30 12:00 AM

traps and clarity

     Thank you all for commenting on my last blogs, I have been struggling a bit lately. Falling into some traps maybe. There seems to be too much to do and not enough hours in the day and I am finding myself paralyzed from moving forward. Or maybe I am avoiding doing the hard stuff&nb»

 
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Tue, Nov 27 12:00 AM

Who am I?

     Who am I.? My last blog was about forgiving myself, my mistakes.  As I was writing , I realized I had so much to say that I needed to write  on another topic, but this is all avoiding my task for today, to work on my job search. I dont want to work! There I have said it.»

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Tue, Nov 27 12:00 AM

forgiveness

     I have been in the process of forgiving myself for a few months now. I have made mistakes, many mistakes. I have had lessons to learn. So for, all my examined mistakes come down to a few simple lessons; trust myself, listen to my inner voice( that gut feeling is my inner voice), v»

 
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Sat, Nov 24 12:00 AM

Updates

 I have friends!!! I have several people who want to go with me to the singles dances in town. I am getting together with friends for wine this afternoon. I am going to start taking spanish lessons with another friend soon. and I plan to take salsa/latin dance lessons in the new year. I have be»

 
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Tue, Nov 20 12:00 AM

Being Me!

 So, I went Salsa dancing this weekend, I had 5 friends there and I had a lot of fun. I was there to dance, not pick up a man so it didn't matter to me who asked me to dance or if I asked someone to dance. One of the greatest compliments I heard was that I am not the same woman that some of these»

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Sat, Nov 17 12:00 AM

anxiety, this and that

 what a week! I have loved the recording and it has been a good week for the most part. I am going salsa dancing tonight, which I have been looking forward to doing for FAR too long. Yet I have a feeling of not quite succeeding. I am having anxiety attacks again... each time I try to find a job. The »

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Sun, Nov 11 12:00 AM

day 43

 I going to love this week!     Last June, I took a weekend course at the end of which we were to write 3 letters to ourselves, that would be mailed to us 30, 60 and 90 days after. I was amazed at how much those letters boosted me when they came. I laughed at how accurate they were in »

 
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Thu, Nov 08 12:00 AM

struggles

     I have been struggling this week. My course is over and the party's done. My group still meets for coffee or emails, we just don't have any weekly assignments and challenges to work on. It is raining, and my kids are sick, so I am feeling a little lost, except for my tools»

 
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Sun, Nov 04 12:00 AM

5 weeks

 What a relief, day 34 glitch , wasn't my fault.      I had a great party last night. My small (6 women) Advancement of Excellence group had our "Commencement" dinner and dance. We are a pretty great group of women, who have been supporting each other through substan»

 
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Fri, Nov 02 12:00 AM

day 34

     Hmm, I thought I had finished all the tasks for today, but couldn't  get the finished button to work, so I must have missed something, I have gone through everything again, and I can not figure out what I missed. This is confusing, but there must be a lesson in this. I th»

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