what am i missing? i have been trying to date again and i am having a tough time meeting single men of my age. coach says date lots, even bad dates are learning and growth experiences, i have had 2 dates in the last 2 months, none in the previous 5 years. i have an online profile and am not afraid to make the first contact, (though not getting responses back),I have told my friends and family that i am looking and available, I volunteer at my children's activities and meet many parents. how do i get that first date and how do i get it to turn into a second date? 

this is one area of my life that is not working well, all other areas have been improving steadily since completing tools, 2 years ago. I am not unhappy, I am just ready for more and maybe need a little advice and encouragement . I could look at it that 2 dates over the past 2 months is an improvement, am i just wanting too much too soon? does this scream of desperation? i certainly hope not. any advice? encouragement? thoughts?