Making the right decisions by sirg Self Directed Motivation Programs

GOAL:TO BUILD MY SELF ESTEEM TO A LEVEL WHERE I AM COMFORTABLE AND LOVE ME. BY:30th September 2007 How will I achieve this: a. By utilising the amazing gift given to me by toolstolife b. By stopping the medication I use for my depression and overcoming it by my thought patterns - after all if it is due to a lack of Serotonin then hey my brain mind and attitude will replace this Seratonin. c.I will visualise myself witout depression and feel the hapiness once my vibes are right I have no doubt I can and will achieve anything. d. I will attract people into my life with substance and who will add real value to my life. e.I will assist those I meet with low self esteem without taking control of thier lives as i have often done in the past. F. I will learn not to be so hard on myself. I will forgive myself and inspire myself to do better without guilt or blame.

To invite through a local newspaper people to come along to a support network whose objective will be: a. To get others started on tools to life b. To meet weekly on a Saturday afternoond to share our learnings and encourage one another to greatness - BY 14th July

Goal - To roll out Toolstolife to a group of people in Malawi. So that more people can benifit from this tool. Then to start a support group in Malawi maybe 10 maybe 2 maybe more so that we can all share and learn together. This will also allow me to do what i love working with and developing people and am certain that this will help further develop me. So what I have i done so far to get this started well i have placed an ad in the local paper for tomorrow to find interested people. so here goes.

To sell La Dolce Vita at a profit before the end of August 2008

To stop being a bank for Kay. Why would i want to be with someone who is embarrassed to be with me. To learn to love me as I am and next time i eneter a relationship of any form to ensure that they value me . Not to be proud but not to be stupid either

To journal my travel across Malwai Zambia, Botswana, South Africa and Zimbabwe in a truck

To complete my new CV by Wednesday the ist August 2008

Get internet at home by the 1st August 2008

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Sahndra_om:

You got that right!!!

I am sending you positive energy to help. It does get easier. The enthusiasm grows when you start to see and feel results.

With exercise I have had to do some self talk-"get in there and JUST DO IT", "it is only 30 min workout,what you don't have 30mins. to make your life better?".

I find that doing my exercise automatically helps me with the decisions on what to eat or not to eat. I do let myself have treats once in a while but not a whole chocolate bar(my weakness), just a couple bites, and boy do I savor those wonderful,well deserved bites.

Sirg,you can do this...you know it and tell that 'nasty little insignificant guy' that if he doesn't have anything nice or encouraging to say then he better hush up!