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Birth Date: Fri, May 10 1957

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Blantyre n/a, Malawi (map)

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Schools: Morgan High School, Bochum University, North London Poly

Jobs: Sales & Marketing Manager, Training Manager


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To be in a warm and loving relationship
To never have to worry about money
To motivate many to greatness and so make a difference
To have a child
GOAL:TO BUILD MY SELF ESTEEM TO A LEVEL WHERE I AM COMFORTABLE AND LOVE ME. BY:30th September 2007 How will I achieve this: a. By utilising the amazing gift given to me by toolstolife b. By stopping the medication I use for my depression and overcoming it by my thought patterns - after all if it is due to a lack of Serotonin then hey my brain mind and attitude will replace this Seratonin. c.I will visualise myself witout depression and feel the hapiness once my vibes are right I have no doubt I can and will achieve anything. d. I will attract people into my life with substance and who will add real value to my life. e.I will assist those I meet with low self esteem without taking control of thier lives as i have often done in the past. F. I will learn not to be so hard on myself. I will forgive myself and inspire myself to do better without guilt or blame.
To invite through a local newspaper people to come along to a support network whose objective will be: a. To get others started on tools to life b. To meet weekly on a Saturday afternoond to share our learnings and encourage one another to greatness - BY 14th July
Goal - To roll out Toolstolife to a group of people in Malawi. So that more people can benifit from this tool. Then to start a support group in Malawi maybe 10 maybe 2 maybe more so that we can all share and learn together. This will also allow me to do what i love working with and developing people and am certain that this will help further develop me. So what I have i done so far to get this started well i have placed an ad in the local paper for tomorrow to find interested people. so here goes.
To sell La Dolce Vita at a profit before the end of August 2008
To stop being a bank for Kay. Why would i want to be with someone who is embarrassed to be with me. To learn to love me as I am and next time i eneter a relationship of any form to ensure that they value me . Not to be proud but not to be stupid either
To journal my travel across Malwai Zambia, Botswana, South Africa and Zimbabwe in a truck
To complete my new CV by Wednesday the ist August 2008
Get internet at home by the 1st August 2008
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  sirg

Fri, Jul 04 02:12 AM

Just a little share that has brightened my day

 

We start so many different journeys in our lives. Often we cannot be sure where they will lead. And so i started a journey with toolstolife praying that this will assist me in my search for me and the courage to create and see through goals. What a challenge, and during this challenge of which i am still at the beginning of this journey i have at times completed the tasks and at times found so many excuses not to carry out the tasks which included but are not limited to:

1. I am so busy

2. I cannot do this at home as i do not have access to the net at home

3. If they only realised how much stress im having to deal with

4. Im being retrenched

5. I will do it tomorrow

6. How can I possibly get up go straight to the bath splash my face with water and proclaim what a great day - when its so cold and i just hate the cold.

So today ive been thinking - what about those who are never busy , do i honestly presume i am the only one with stress - and hey i can do stuff that will reduce the stress , how many others have been retrenched on gone on to better things, yes i could leave it for tomorrow i could also never do it , but i guess at the end of the day the only one who would loose is me. So again i make a fresh commitment todo it all as i should, because its just so easy to make excuses.

Well despite some pain in my heart today has starated as such a great day. Why well

I have made some amazing friends on this group that one day i may visit and even if i never do i would have felt and witnessed thier growth and been part of thier journey. I have entered a great challenge that will have a positive impact on my life.My attitude is changing just this morning i got two special surprises the first a young lady (Turkish) who worked with my sister in Germany wrote me a lovely warm and honest email. Spoke of her life challenges her recent trip to Turkey and ended by telling me she thinks of me as her mentor and big brother - wow i love you Gul.

Not more than 10 minutes later i spoke to a customer over 70 years of age a German gent born in Brazil who has seen a fare amount in his time and travelled extensively in sub saharan Africa. He shared such wisdom and also spoke of a great German who fought Hitler and was fortunate not to find himself in the Gas chambers , and yet he continued, such great courage. What was further inspiring is that this great mans son is the one who assisted me as a political refugee when I arrived in Germany- talk about synchronicity.

I trust this brief share will encourage us all to just keep going to change our attitudes, to be responsible for our actions , to stop complaing and go forward. And hey if you like me and find yourself complaining or down in the rut tomorrow dont be hard on yourself , forgive yourslef and just keep going for Gold.

Much Love

Fred  

 

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wow such great wisdom, keep it up and give us a lot more blogs like this!

             

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Way to go! Way to go! The first steps are awareness....

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