forbish07:

Mistakes

We try to make out mistakes when we are young so that we can hopefully learn from them and not make the same ones later in life.  Its just part of growing up and being young!  Dont feel too bad, we all do it.  I was in EXTREME debt by the time I was 18 years old.  Just STUPID purchases constantly and I think at one point I had either 13 or 16 credit cards that were all maxed. I didnt know any better!!  I learned from that and am still paying for it.  Dont beat yourself up too much, we all get lost from time to time and we just need to pick ourselves up and find our way again. I know how you feel about not having money, but just think about how much more you DO have then a lot of people in this world.  Dont take one thing for granted.

Fur:

Live and Learn

Why did we do all of those stupid things when we were young? For me I think that I just wanted to grow up so fast that I didn't care about all of that great advice that my elders told me. I sure had a lot of fun doing all of the things that I wanted to do though. Its all a learning experience and it is what makes us all who we are now. And if you dont like that person you became, atleast you can make a list of all of the things that didn't work out so well for you in the past and make sure you don't do those things again.

I have recently lost everything I had. I lost my marrage, job, house, truck, and much more. Really its like I just went back in time about 10 years. Now I am in many ways back to a fresh clean slate in my life. Somewhere in the past I must have skipped a step, or I was just to blind to see some of the major things I should have learned. I feel very lucky that I now have this opportunity to start my life over and have that clean slate to mold and rebuild my life in a posative and successful new way.   

With that said you can eather build a time machine and go back to those crutial life changing events, or you can move forward with your life in a positive successful way. I believe that with that success you will find many ways to overcome your finacial problems.

Have a great day,

Fur

P.S. In case you do invent a time machine please let me know because I would like to change a few things myself. Lol...

Puzzler:

Keep going with this program!

There are plenty of things still to come in this program that will help you resolve your feelings, if you do the work.  Sounds like you need to forgive yourself and move on.  You are in control now because you are thinking about your actions.  You need to start believing you can trust yourself. x