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Feeling Good about focusing on friends!

 

 

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  tra_smiley

Mon, Jan 14 12:00 AM

Feeling Good about focusing on friends!

 

I have made it a goal to focus on some friends that I have been neglecting for the past few years.

 

I seriously have spectacular friends.  Even with only seeing them once or twice last year they are still there ready to get back in the fold.

 

So this weekend I did something very unlike me.  I called up folks Saturday asking them to brunch - at our house - Sunday afternoon.  I am usually introverted so even when I do hang out with friends it is in public not in the solitude of my home.  Ironically my home is very entertainment friendly.  All 10 of us fit round the table.  We had a ton of food and fantastic conversation. 

 

Funny food taste better when cooked for friends.

 

I was shocked at how grateful they were.  I am very blessed.  An added bonus was how proud my husband was.  He is very social but has been very kind to tone it down to keep me in my comfort zone.  He looked so happy to be sharing our home with friends.  It makes me smile knowing I made his Sunday.

 

Anyways it is now going to be a habit.  Every 4th weekend we will get together at our house. 

 

This is gonna be my new comfort level.  I know it in my heart.

 

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