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Sweetie try to think of it as this..if this didn't happen now then he(the undeserving man) would be in the way for the One you are supposed to be with,the One that deserves such deep love. I notice you are a Leo as well and our sense of loyalty and bonding is inherently strong. As far as just hanging out and going back to being just 'friends' is crap!! Your lover IS your best friend!! AND to not give you the respect to talk to you about this very deep subject(at least it is to you)in person is chicken sh(bleep). I would save all that precious loving energy for yourself. Let it build and build and really appreciate you for you. Doing this, you can't help but attract and be attractive! As they say and it is so true 'to every end there is a beginning". I know about broken hearts!! The love of my life(or so I thought)really broke my heart!! Broke up w/me after getting pregnant! Too bad for him because I ROCK!!! I did end up meeting the man I am so very much in love with. 8+years now and I am so grateful!! Hold on girl...he IS out there!!! LOVE AND LIGHT-SAHNDRA
So sorry that this happened.
Remember, you are stronger than you think you are....you will pull through this. As for your birthday being right around the corner,that sucks that this happened, but you can celebrate the fact that you aren't going to be wasting anymore time with someone who just wasn't that into you (though I hate that phrase, it has its merits). If he feels it won't work, I doubt he would've come around and if he did, it would;ve probably been temporarily...which means it likey would've failed sooner or later. and it is better sooner than to waste one more day on someone who believes you weren't right for him.
So, on your birthday, I'll be drinking (appropriately, of course) to you. Single, fabulous, free-from-the-wrong-man you.
P.S.
Come visit Alaska for your birthday present to yourself. You deserve it.
I know how you feel
This same thing happened to me, only it was by EMAIL, not even the phone, I was outraged and VERY upset, He certainly wasn't worth your tears if he could not give you two a chance to grow. We live in a throw away world where everything seems to be easy to throw away including relationships - Take a breath and tell yourself that you can be a complete circle on your own UNTIl the one that deserves you comes along. Micci
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I cheered this to support you.
I think blogs are a great way to vent. I always feel better when I write out my anger and/ or sadness.
Keep your mind moving forward, next ask yourself... What is next. I say this to myself:
"So WHAT
What's next
Move on....(repeat 3 times)
It seem to flip a switch in my brain and helps me to look at the future.
Hope this helps.