francescagreen at 2012-03-14

says:

I had the same problem. I did some things in the past that I would like to change, I had a wrong, negative attitude towards situations, but I've got used to think this way: if that happened, there was a reason. Nothing happens without a reason. Sometimes you don't understand it immediately, sometimes it takes months or even years to understand why something happened to you (even very bad things), but I'm sure that God (or Destiny, the Universe, Life, call it the way you want!) has a plan for everyone. And maybe bad things that happen to you are just signs that you have to change you way of life, that you have to take a chance, to try something different, or maybe you just needed an experience, you had to learn something that will certainly be useful sooner or later in your life, you just have to listen to your heart and find a useful, bright side in everything that happened in the past. Trust me, it works! And it's wonderful! :) Just have faith.