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Birth Date: Sun, May 08 1988

Place of residence:
Demarest NJ, United States (map)

I am: Single & Not Dating

Schools: Bergen Community

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I want to finish my education at Bergen Community College.
I want to get my BA Degree in Fashion Marketing and Management.
I want to have an academically successful Fall 08 semester.
I need to pass both of my Math Classes, Mat-010 and Mat-011.
I need to have A's, B's and C's in all of my classes.
I want my GPA to be 3.5 this semester.
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I want to make the Honor's List.
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Sahndra_om Sahndra_om: 2008-08-08 07:57:57

Hey girl, just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. Sending positive energy your way!! LOVE AND LIGHT-SAHNDRA

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Sahndra_om Sahndra_om: 2008-08-07 16:05:24

Day 19 good work! Stay sweet!!

Sahndra_om Sahndra_om: 2008-07-26 18:39:08

Hey sweetie, here is a big warm BOOST!!! May your days be bright and shiny even when the storms come!!

Green_Raven Green_Raven: 2008-07-23 12:01:25

Here's a boost as I just read your story and feel you may need it! Best Luck in accomplishing your goals, you deserve a life full of happiness, peace and contentment.

: 2008-07-22 06:24:08

Giving you a BIG BOOST for all your challenges :) PJ

: 2008-07-21 18:38:33

welcome , hang in here and you will soar like the eagles on a natural high

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I am a 20 year old female. I lived in the same small town my whole life. I was rasied by a single mother who wasn't a real good role model. I also live with my grandmother who is a total bitch, she thinks she better than everyone else. My grandfather was my hero and I was his bundle of joy and my grandma was, of course hated me that I was so close to him and she thought of me as the enemy. My grandfather died almost a year ago and I still miss him everyday. My grandmother did not shead a tear at his funeral.

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I am confused on what to do about this and I hope to hear some good advice. I was dating this great guy(Anthony), we go to the same school and have the same friends. We dated for about alittle bit more than a month, then we broke up. He does not have a car and does live far from me, he is supposed get one soon. He went out with a girl to the movies and never told her that he was dating someone( me) she makes a move on him and end up making out. I had found out by him but instead of being up front about it, he told me his friend did it, I had asked him if he did it and he said no. But like in two mintues told me he did. He kept calling me on our day(the 24th) for about two months. He now wants me back(he told me he was sorry and that he always loved me) .but he  also just wants to be friends with benefits, and not have a serious relationship. He was the love of my life and I can't see my life without him. I want to take him back but without getting hurt again. He told me that he was seeing someone but he thinks she is cheating on him so he is breaking up with her. What should I do? 

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Jerih Jerih at 2008-08-08

says: I agree with Kamimi.  You deserve to be treated better.  If you want to remain friends, that's okay, but no fringe benefits.  No strings attached relationships never work out and you sure don't need your heart trampled on.

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I joined TOOLS because:
 I want to become a better person and to have support to do so. I also want to become a better college student.
You are offered your dream job. What job is it?:
 My dream job would be a Fashion Desiginer
My favorite wild animal is:
 The White Tigers.
Why (describe as much as possible):
 I think they are so beautiful and different from other animals.
My favorite domestic animal is (if you choose dog be specific with breed etc):
 Golden Lab
Why:
 The Golden Lab is friendly, playful, and loyal. The same qualities as me.
A famous Chef will prepare anything you want. What do you order:
 Pizza
Why:
 I am half Italian
Five people either dead or alive you would have at your fantasy dinner party::
 My Grandfather, Paris Hiltion, Elvis, Heath Ledger, and Nicole Richie.
Why:
 I loved my Grandfather, Paris Hiltion because there would be no party without her, Evis because I loved his music, Heath Ledger because he was such a great actor, and Nicole Richie because I love her fashion sense.
If a pilot would fly you anywhere you want, you would go to:
 Hawaii
My perfect slice of pizza is:
 Cheeze with garlic.
You are at a bar. You order this drink:
 It would be sex on the beach if I was 21 but as of now I order diet coke.
You are at a coffee shop. What coffee or tea do you order:
 Grande decaff skim white mocha. Always at Starbucks.
If a genie could grant you three wishes they would be (separate by commas):
 I would want my grandfather back alive and well with no idea that he died, I would want to be a famous Fashion Designer, I would want to get away from my mom and grandma.
You are going on a long road trip and you can only bring three CD's. Which ones do you bring (separate by commas):
 Bittersweet World by Ashlee Simpson, PCD by The Pussycat Dolls, and Breakway by Kelly Clarkson.
If I could do anything for my neighborhood today, it would be:
 Cleaning up the park.
A sunset I remember:
 was with my grandfather and watching the sun go down in the summertime.
Any character I could be from a movie, TV show or book would be:
 I would be Piper Halliwell from Charmed the TV show.
Why:
 She is a strong young women who married her soulmate, she is a great mother to her children, and she saved the world from demons.