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Thu, Jul 31 05:09 PM

What Should I Do?

 I am confused on what to do about this and I hope to hear some good advice. I was dating this great guy(Anthony), we go to the same school and have the same friends. We dated for about alittle bit more than a month, then we broke up. He does not have a car and does live far from me, he is supposed get one soon. He went out with a girl to the movies and never told her that he was dating someone( me) she makes a move on him and end up making out. I had found out by him but instead of being up front about it, he told me his friend did it, I had asked him if he did it and he said no. But like in two mintues told me he did. He kept calling me on our day(the 24th) for about two months. He now wants me back(he told me he was sorry and that he always loved me) .but he  also just wants to be friends with benefits, and not have a serious relationship. He was the love of my life and I can't see my life without him. I want to take him back but without getting hurt again. He told me that he was seeing someone but he thinks she is cheating on him so he is breaking up with her. What should I do? 

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Jerih Jerih: 2008-08-08

says: I agree with Kamimi.  You deserve to be treated better.  If you want to remain friends, that's okay, but no fringe benefits.  No strings attached relationships never work out and you sure don't need your heart trampled on.

Bogomolny.Vladislav Bogomolny.Vladislav: 2008-08-08

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I believe your inner voice knows what to do. It looks like your story with this great guy is not over. You can still be together if you both want to start over and not continue the last time. Let them know what you expect from him. If he is OK with that fine if not find out why he want to see you. Let him know that you will not stand cheating. Do what you want to do. Take this as opportunity to learn this guy. You will find out if he worth you or not.

Kamimi Kamimi: 2008-08-05

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You are young and sassy and this guy is a looser. Raise your bar you can have the life you choose if you believe you are worth it and are prepared to work hard for it. Decide to live better, know yourself better and expect better.

 

You are worth it.