Member Since: 12/12/09
Last Login: 12/30/09
Program Progress: Day 2
It sounds like she is saying one thing but doing another. Based upon all of your story in the first paragraph, I would tell you that it is over and you have got to move on.
Then I got to "she says she loves me and wants me to fight for her". Man, talk about head games. I don't know what to tell you. If I wrote a heartfelt and serious email or letter to my girlfriend and did not get a response, I'd think it is over.
Keep doing tools...every day. You're on day two now, but in about two weeks you should really start to see some results.
Happy Texas: 2009-12-30
I think its great that you want to save your marriage. It is not over unless you give up. The only thing you can do is work on your self, your side of things. The more positive you are, the easier the situation will be, at least for you. Hopefully by doing that it will help to open her eyes to the man you really are.
Marital strife is never fun, I know from experience. I think it is easier to work on a difficult marriage than try and sort through the rubble of a divorce. I hope that helps and I wish you the best in putting things back together. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help.
says: oh and im sorry if this don't make a lot of sence .but i have a hard time even thinking about it right now