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I like pretty much anything from rock to rap to country to oldies... you name it, i probably like it.
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I love motorcycles and street bikes. I have found interest in biker gang books. mainly the ones from the good guys trying to act bad. like : Under and Alone, and No Angel. however, im not interested in being an outlaw biker, i just like to read about them.
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The world! I want to see more of the United States first then move my way to the outter countries...
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Go ahead and risk it
i like that quote...
its about getting outside of my comfort zone. i dont like to be outside it and i have no control outside of it so, eventhough i want to go outside of it, i dont even venture out of my comfort zone. i know i need to but some paralyzing fear holds me back. thats what i need to break down. its good to learn this and figure this out. its a huge wall that i need to figure out how to get around. thats what im focusing on right now. i cant go thru it so im figuring out how to go around it.
Heartbreak is one of the worst feelings in the world
I understand your hesitation. Shit, my heart was recently broken when I discovered a girl I was trying to date didn't reciprocate my advances. But don't let ANYONE hold you back, yami.
True, you cannot control if another person hurts you or not, but you CAN control how you REACT to that person. Be PROACTIVE...REFUSE to let anyone affect your emotional well-being (it's one of my 20 Rules for Empowering my Life I created in TOOLs).
And thank you for reminding me that there are people out there who've had their heart broken recently just like me. I needed to hear your words today to remind myself there are people who deserve a deeper, better love like ourselves. We'll find ours, buddy! Believe that!
Love is the best fix you can ever get. And like AnnieEm says "risk it". It's worth it if you snag the right one. :)
held back...
its not just anyone that holding me back. it ME thats holding myself back. thats what im trying to figure out. WHY i hold back. WHY i cant just "lose control", in a sense, and be free. something inside of me wants to be in control 100% of the time. this means with who im with too. thats what its been the major root of the problems between me & my current love. i want to give her my heart but somethings holding me back from "losing control" and fully allowing her to have my heart.
i like AnnieEm's quote... ill do the work and make the change!
sorry, bro...
...a bit exhausted this morning and was blathering on mindlessly.
Time will heal that trust issue you have. By trusting yourself, your inner voice, and your intuition, you will see the light.
Good luck, man!
thanks dude!
yeah thats what im still struggling with on this issue the most. is trusting my inner voice and my intuition. both tell me to trust her and to do what best but my "outter" voice is still saying not to. thats what im trying to determine. why my outter voice is saying that so i can shut that outter voice up. no worries on the exhausted part. ive been babbling too... just so much on my mind, i gotta get some of it out ya know?